mommytobe
maddy16
mommytobe·В ожидании первенца
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I need advice!! So this is my babyfather ☝🏼️ he got so many girls on his dick tbh tht if he tells them to send him naked pics they would do it 😒 well the thing is tht idk if it's Bcuz of my pregnancy or just me but sometimes I get tired of him I don't want him touching me, kissing me, hugging me, and all tht I get mad fast over petty shit, I be rejecting him sometimes. And he gets mad Bcuz I do it. Nd tells me tht I'm going to regret it later on. I don't want to lose him, so idk Wat to do for me to stop rejecting him. Sometimes I feel lucky to have him Bcuz honestly there's a lot of pretty girls tht want him, so I just don't Noe 😞

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babybenson2016
Aleshia·В ожидании первенца

because not backseat I hate auto correct

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babybenson2016
Aleshia·В ожидании первенца

girl please don't put yourself down for a man. I can tell you love him but think about the example he will set for your child. also you are a woman who is going through major changes to create another human being, hormonal changes and physical changes will keep happening...you probably also feel that you don't want to be touched because of how insecure it makes you feel knowing that he might run off to someone else if you dont. you should feel wanted backseat he is touching, talking, acting, and treating you right. not down because he isn't man enough to realize how to treat you.

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jujulove13
Julianna·Мама сына (2 года), беременна (16 нед.)

if he is giving you a reason to not trust him then okay I understand but if he isn't doing anything talk to him baby girl don't ruin your relationship over something petty . and don't stat with him just because all these girls want him that's not rite! I hope everything works out between ya or you make the rite choice good luck sweetie I'm here if you need to talk

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jujulove13
Julianna·Мама сына (2 года), беременна (16 нед.)

if he is giving you a reason to not trust him then okay I understand but if he isn't doing anything talk to him baby girl don't ruin your relationship over something petty . and don't stat with him just because all these girls want him that's not rite! I hope everything works out between ya or you make the rite choice good luck sweetie I'm here if you need to talk

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ariellarochelle
Ariella·В ожидании первенца

Don't let any female tell you this is normal. It isn't. It shouldn't matter if it's your hormones or not, as a MAN he needs to be there. If he wants to act like that kick his ass to the curb. It's never going to be easy, but if he acts like that it's what's best. And if a man ever tells you 'whatever you won't do another girl will'. Leave him right then. Because it's manipulating and it's abusive behavior.

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casey_b
Casey blanco·В ожидании первенца

seriously mine does the same thing till I showed him a msg of an ex telling me he would still take me back even while carrying another man's child. your Bf just like mine needs to realize you BOTH are important and have the capability to find better. it's the fact that you love each other that makes u stay if you are lucky to have him he is lucky to have you just Bc these girls look like super models don't mean Shit Bc he didn't mind your body while he was knocking you up right ??? so he sure as hell shouldn't mind it when it's going through changes to grow his child .... your pregnancy did not take your worth as a woman... trust me I struggle with this very same thing feel free to msg any time

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pinkblossom99
Chela·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@lovely1996, @breloya i thought it was only me thank god

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breloya
Brea·Мама дочки-младенца

I don't believe in the whole "what you won't do, another girl will" crap. If he wants to be with you, he will stay and won't ev telling you things like "oh you'll regret it" Nothing is going to make a man stay if he doesn't want to himself. During my pregnancy, my hormones were so out of whack. I didn't want my husband to kiss me, touch me, come near me, I got so mad when his leg brushed against mine. I started to think that I didn't love him anymore. We argued almost daily. But he stayed because he loved me. And after pregnancy, I craved him and his attention/affection. So it may just be hormones, because I hated my own husband during pregnancy. He should be thankful to have a beautiful girlfriend, one that's also carrying his child and have eyes only for you, not threatening you with leaving or hooking up with another.

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mgl12
Lilly·В ожидании первенца

My baby daddy is the same way. And, I'm fed up. I cut him off it it's not about the baby we don't talk! You don't have to put up with that BS! It's nothing to co-parent. I see a lot people telling you to settle and think about the baby. You can do that and be unhappy, always worried if he's out cheating? If he don't respect you now he won't start. You deserve way better you are too pretty to settle for anything but, the best!

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february2016
Jessica💕·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

it's definitely just the pregnancy hormones

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lostinct82mj
Merinda·Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет)

THANK YOU @chela915! You might think he's something special because other women want him but if he's willing to threaten you with leaving while you're pregnant with his child then there's bigger issues. If he knew you before you got pregnant he should know how you normally act. End of story. Pregnancy hormones suck but as long as you're honest with him, he should be more understanding. Imo

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billeysmommy2016
Karen Dodson·В ожидании первенца

if yall are meant to be and he loves you then he should understand that your pregnant and going through all this change. if your truly meant to be he should have eyes for you and no one else. just pray about it and God will help you know what to do. im praying for you as well

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naharib121415
Dominique Randall·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)

i'm kinda going through the same thing so i understand were u are coming from but wat im starting realize is like she said ^^^ he should only have eyes for u and u only never doubt urself at all and u should never have to beg for a man to stay so if he leaves because u dont want him all over then ✌cause u deserve way better than that but dont keep the baby away from him because of ur guys issues he should be thankful he has somebody like u because im sure beside this he has but u through some other bs im praying for u

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pinkblossom99
Chela·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

am sorry but you are not lucky to have him. In fact he is the lucky one no matter if he has 100 super models in the room he should respect you and have eyes only for you. You are beautiful don't ever put yourself down. You are the mother of his child , you have a lit going on and hey sometimes you don't want to be touch.

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astridoll
💞Astrid💞·В ожидании первенца

think about your baby, and not only about you. I grew up without my father .. they broke up when I was 3 or 4 years old. and that's sad, I would do whatever I could so my children have their father raising them and loving them every day.. when you realize how much a child needs to be with his dad ... you will see him and your relationship in a different way

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tbella91

remember what u won't do, another girl will. that's going to push him away.think about your child if u want him there. because you're going to need all the help u can get.I wish my baby father was around.

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