has anybody else's sex drive just gone down since having a baby or even getting pregnant ? mine…

has anybody else's sex drive just gone down since having a baby or even getting pregnant ? mine seems to have vanished since a couple months before we had Elliott. and I'm really hoping it'll come back once doctor gives us the okay to have sex again. I feel bad tho cause I haven't felt like kissing or anything for the past few months. and my husband doesn't know that I feel that way cause I usually just force myself to kiss him so he doesn't feel bad. he kept feeling like it was his fault at first and then I started acting like that had stopped. is it wrong for me to do that? I just don't want him to feel bad :/ I still love him very much. just having a hard time with the intimacy part. which I know is an important part.