I always catch my boyfriend "taking care of business" in the bathroom......I laugh every single…

there for a little while I didn't want it it was about a month long when I was almost out of the first trimester lol but my fiance is to lazy to do it himself lol

I don't want sex and my boyfriend is going on 4 weeks without it. He understands it's pregnancy and he don't get mad but he enjoys cuddling and watching movies insted

I have never caught my fiancé taking care of it on his own because we still have sex on a regular basis. The longest we have gone is maybe a week but I'm not as far along but the further I get, the more and more I'm not in the mood. But when the mood hits, the mood hits. I'm sure if he goes awhile without it, he will start taking care of it on his own, too. lol.

It's normal for you to not be in the mood, sometimes for it to even be painful. There are other things in the bedroom that can be done for both of you to get yours.

Omg!!! Me, I'M Like That Now. I'm Early On But Sometimes My Mood Just Be Like Don't Touch Me. Or I Won't Initiate It. And If He Do I'll Just Let Him Know I'm Not In The Mood. But.... Nine Times Out Of Ten He'll Convince Me Lol ... And I Be All In.

Having sex hasn't been something I enjoy and I definitely don't enjoy it like I used to which is weird because my last two pregnancies I enjoyed sex up until giving birth but my husband and I are still intimate we've just found other ways to take care of each other. I've walked in on him watching porn but not actually taking care of himself but obviously that's what it was leading too.

I was sick for about 4.5 months and on an IV and pump with Zofran for a month so it was rare.....he's got it maybe 5-6times since i have been sick @thebroadwaybaby16 I'm getting better now but the pain is setting in now soo it's harder even though I do want it.....and once we r done the baby doesn't really like it...he gets all angry in my belly and kicks like crazy after and that's painful....I don't sleep for hours after no matter how tired I am....

Yea mind went almost 2 months without it from me but we had sex recently but he gets a horny spell I guess and just wants it more after I give him some @katearabella I just hope it's movies and not some other girl sending him something (that's my fear) every single time. Last time I checked the video while he was watching it but this time I didn't.....I don't like being paranoid 😫

we barely had sex my first trimester, I didn't want it at all. second trimester I wanted it ALL the time... we pretty much did it every weekend and the weekdays we just snuggled. third trimester I want it again, but he's scared he's gonna hurt the baby or poke the baby 😂 I tell him he's not gonna poke the baby! but he's completely turned off by it. which I'm okay with it. I haven't caught him taking care of business, I have caught him watching dirty videos and I picked on him for it and he hasn't done it since. not that I know of at least. either way, I don't care. I still try to please him in other ways.

I wasn't able to have an orgasm as per doctor rules early on Bc I was at a risk for miscarriage (my orgasms with him are strong 🙈😂) he's good at what he does early on I was ok with sex but like 8-9 weeks in that was it @boogersbugsanddirt

Once I'm in I'm in but usually I say No and he gets the point. He stopped asking after a while @naturalbornwinner

I get soo self conscious Bc I definitely don't look the same n e more soo I don't want him to think of me as unattractive but he says to me all the time in beautiful and he notices my weight coming back on and he likes my body that's coming back soo idk it's just weird @soontobemomof5 here's a pic of me pre baby.... 🙈😩😢 I don't look like that n e more and it's making me more self conscious lately 😢

@disa_nicole, I see. With my boys, I got in the mood (like borderline crazy) for sex all the damn time after 30 weeks. My exhusband was like what the fuck? You can't even see your vagina. lol. Yeah, but you can!!! Punk ass cut me off.

I feel you girl I can't wait to have my body back to myself to fully enjoy it

@disa_nicole, I worry all the time too and I'm so self conscious because I have a 3 year old, 2 year old, I had a miscarriage then got pregnant with this little one so I've had no time to get my body back at all between anything but my husband tells me all the time how beautiful I am. He even tells me he likes the extra weight on me which always goes straight to my rear lol. If he's telling you he still finds you sexy just try to get out of your head and have a little fun, I know it's hard but he puts up with my crazy mood swings so I figure it's the least I could for him.

Mine has a daughter already so he knows he isn't gonna hurt the baby but I just want to be able to please him more and I can't.....I get sick tryin to do that for him 😢 @countyourblessings05

I lost weight that was my issue and my ass disappeared and I'm just so self conscious about it. My hair damn near fell out I broke out a little on my face I'm not the same me.....I have no energy to be. I hate hair salons now Bc I have to sit too long without food...in the beginning I could barely eat certain foods so it was nearly impossible to go out and get my hair done and sit for 30 min without eating something and getting sick @soontobemomof5

Sometimes I just have to suck it up and have sex with him even though I don't want too haha. But yeah I feel bad cause I just don't want it anymore