i know my posts seems a little bipolar at times but i feel this is the only way i can vent and get support that wont bite my a$$ down the road. so here it is...i told my hubby tonight that i was feeling neglected. we didnt argue or anything i just mentioned that i needed a little attention. well he got defensive and said he had a million things to do during the day (which he does) but then turned on his subway surfers and played until he fell asleep. why is there time for that and not a kiss goodnight or "hey how was your day?" i guess im just feeling lonely...i know he does everything he can for us, but i just feel like I've been stuck in the hall closet for another day when he needs me. 😳😳
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Yes I agree!! I hate that there are more than just my jerk in the world!! I'm sorry you are dealing with that.. Maybe we should ignore them and find something to do without them!!
@no3lastone4me, im so sorry girl. that must hurt :( i know that is kinda like their "de-stress" thing but i wish we could be that...if that makes any sense. i would love if his relax time was with me or at least with the baby
i guess i will have to try that @onemoretime
I'm in your shoes at this very moment :'( I'm so tired of begging for attention. I haven't had sex in months (begged for it too) I don't get anything more than "Video Games" and I'm tired of this life!! When I say anything about it, I'M THE ONE BEING REDICULOUS!! I mean really??
I totally get it. Maybe try spelling out exactly what you want. Tell him that you would like him to plan one date night a month or one night a week with no electronics, etc. some men don't get the concept of "I want you to spend more time with me". It's too vague.
haha yes! good plan! @no3lastone4me