I'm sorry. everytime I bring up that the baby he is kicking he is just like, whatever. wish he could just feel it and maybe it would help him change. I'm hoping one of these days when we are just laying together watching TV he accidentally feels it and he says or does something about it. lol

I know exactly how you feel only my hubby is like whatever about it because he has other kids it kinda makes me feel bad because I get so excited when she kicks and he's like ooo cool.... like last night I put a baby cupcake on my belly (it was cold) and she kept kicking so hard it would roll off I was laughing for a good 10 mins and he was like ya its cold and she can feel it. such a buzz kill

yeah I know the feeling. my husband doesn't know his real father. but I have talked to people that do know him, and he was not a good person. he is afraid too. I think he will be perfectly fine. good luck to you too.

Yeah I do too. good luck. my husband is scared he will be like his father.. but I know he won't his dad was very mean and angry... my husband is to kind hearted..

@babyanakin, I don't think he is scared to hurt him. I'm just the first pregnant person he's really been around and he has never really been around babies so I think he is just scared. I'm hoping he comes around though.

my husband is the same scared he is going to hurt our son.. @thidnayy18

yeah. it's our first child. so I get he's nervous. just sucks for me. :( I'm not gonna make him feel it though..cause he'd probably get mad..lol

Don't worry it's normal lots of guys are really freaked out about it for some reason like it's an alien or something. My own dad gets freaked out to touch my belly when she's moving lol

I'm dealing with same thing.. I grab his hand and make him feel the baby!!! girl show him who's boss.. make him feel the baby.!

damn Thats mean