
I just need a moment to vent.... Ladies we are all moms/soon to be moms, but something I dont understand is why all of the judgement? I understand you may not agree with someone doing something in pregnancy, lets take the biggest fish and say smoking, but what makes it ok for you to judge someone for that when they could have the exact same belief when it comes to the flu shot? Isnt that like the pot calling the keddle black? Or saying someone isnt a real mom because they had a c-section or where induced. Good lord people, the only one who has a right to judge me is God, and unless someone is Mother freaking Teresa they dont have any right to make any judgement of me or mine..now back to your regularly scheduled programing
it's not about judging some things are just plain wrong and ignorant . just because you want something doesn't make it right for you or your baby also women always thinking it's my body but doesn't the baby have rights as well ?? they deserve to be in a healthy environment people just want to do what they want to do and don't want to be called out on it and face consequences . flu shots are a option smoking while pregnant shouldn't be plain and simple . if someone says something they are bothered and concerned they should be if you a decent human being you should care about others and sometimes it calls for opening your mouth which some take as judgement
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
some girls should shut the hell up .. they always say if you don't have something nice to say then don't say it ! I hate judgmental people with closed minded views .
Moms feel they can’t even openly comment their opinions on a post because they’re afraid of you people judging them or having something negative to say. IF IT DOESNT APPLY LET IT FLY!!!
Ok you all might judge me, but that's ok lol... Do any of you moms smoke cannabis??

Ive spent EVERY waking second with my daughter taking care of her!! I wouldnt want it any other way. I know some moms need a night out but right now I dont quite understand that....you just had a baby why are you out? excuse me for that I was taught not to judge what I dont understand.
you make a valid point but i dont feel that i have a right to say anything to anyone, unless it is for educational purposes... i.e. "im not sure if you are aware or not, but smoking can cause... fill in the blank" i just dont believe in "women who smoke when pregnant should have their kids taken away" i just try to look at the positive in people