so maybe I'm just overreacting or reading to much into this but I was looking through my bfs phone yesterday (he knew) and found a message ...from July...of him talking to his friend...the message went something like .
friend: I thought your pullout game was strong
him: it is but I was drunk I love "ole girl" it was a mistake but a blessing really
it broke my heart and made me so mad ....first of all I'm not some hoe for you to call "ole girl" and you wanted to have a baby so how tf was it a mistake !? and you weren't drunk !! 😞😣💔
Sometimes boys are just idiots I'd be pissed if my hubby said that. Ask him why he did
no I didn't 😩 I didn't even know what to say...it just irritates me that this pregnancy was mainly his plan and he was so ready for it and now he lies and says he was drunk and it was a mistake ? no matter how many fights we've been in or whatever the case I would never say this was a mistake @madz13mama13
You shouldn't let it get to you. Guys act different with their guy friends and yes what @chichimango said that's all it is 😊
Guys will be guys babe. & in front of their friends, they will never be that sensitive guy they shown us to be. It's an ego thing. It's very wrong and you have the right to be mad. But don't take it as he doesn't love you or baby. Yes talk to him about it though. and just tell him you don't appreciate that just because he wants to give an image of manly to his friends.
hopefully he has grown up since then! if not don't be surprised if he doesn't continue to be that way behind your back!