Need some Advice from mommy who understand my point of view. its has been two months that I havent been at my own home for multiple reason. One the house is infested with fleas, bugs and mosquito. Two the bathroom seem to be molded. Three I want a better place and and better realationship with my daughter father. I can't live in a home while I'm pregnant and at any minute I or my daughter could get badly sick. I really think about my child health and mines. I get money doesn't. grow off trees quick but i wish my partner would do his part and find places but he just ignore the issue. It's really frustrates me sometimes too because in those two months I just finally went back home Saturday night and stayed the whole Sunday at my house. which i rather stayed with my parents since their home is clean and has no problems. but no i took the choice to move back in. what's kills me the most is the fact he said he will change and hasn't. He still went back in his ways and still doesnt get. He still smoke and bring around his no good friends and doesnt think that he has a womrn and daughters and cant. be having men come over the house just to chill cause they have no spot to make a move. So he end up chilling and smoking with them. it's. anger me cause last night i caught him with his friends park outside my house when i told him i want changes and no friends.He still doesn't give a flying xxxx about me or his kids. He does not know respect. He doesnt car about mine or his kids feeling. it's really pisses me off to the point i just want to leave and never come back. somehow I'm selfish because i ask for too much wheb all i want is for a happy family with my kids and partner i cant. Its really sucks to say that i just wasted again,again and again my time with him. He hasnt change at all and the. funny part is yesterday he wanted surprise with a wedding ring and proposed. I love my daughter father and i tild him yes but tgen again i dont like the way he did it. call me crazy but i'm old fashion and i like things done the right way when its comes to something serious like that. He should talked to my father before asking my hand in marriage regardless even if I am having my second child. he should get his act together and he hasnt proven me right. He just think your can buy me a ring to stay and put up with it no i refuse! Everytime i look at this ring i feel as if it means nothing feels nothing. wish it was done correctly abd our relationship was good then i wouldn't be feeling a type of way. I. don't know what to do but this isn't what i want and I'm if I may come to sound like a bitch but i have feeling and have question. i don't believe i am doing anything wrong. all i can say he is a good father spending times with his kids and working hard for us but he still has alot to change and learn. i really dont think he will in these stages at all. i don't want to keep on being told. the samething from loved one who care about me a lot more than he those but i need get out. its just hurts and what should i go from here ladies ?😞😒