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Sarah
Sarah
Мама сына (3 года)

Okay. Here comes a rant. Words cannot describe how fucking spoiled my niece/god daughter is. Like, it's so frustrating…

Okay. Here comes a rant.

Words cannot describe how fucking spoiled my niece/god daughter is. Like, it's so frustrating to me. Maybe because I'm a mom also and my sister in law just does things that provoke her instead of trying to break her out of habits. Like, your almost 2 year old should NEVER hit you when they don't get their way.. And neither should your kid NO MATTER how old. You know what I'm saying? And when you just continue to let them do it they're not going to know any better.. And she's just flat out mean. She hits, bites, pinches and smacks my son all the time, he's almost 4. And he's as nice as nice can be. And in my sister in laws eyes, her daughter does no wrong. And her boyfriend, who's also my brother in law (my fiancé's brother & his girlfriend) also thinks that she does no wrong. She legitimately is a TERROR. She throws things, makes messes everywhere and doesn't get in trouble when she does it purposefully... Our parenting styles are clearly different... But damn. And also, if my son has one of her toys... And she starts throwing a fit over it (even though she has 726261010171718102 toys) they'll yell at my son to give her the toys back... Even if she wasn't playing with them.. And if she has one of my son's toys and he wants it, they tell him "she had it first". I just am so not about double standards. Especially when it's unfair to my kid. Like. It's just not fair to him. So. Frustrating.

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wyatts_mommy_0106

KrystinМама двоих (младенец)

wow she isn't gonna be able to poo and if she does poor girl is gonna be hurting. hopefully y'all can get them to make it bearable until y'all are able to.move. I woulda done killed my SIL though. or locked the girl.in the closet for a good hr lmao 😂😂

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xsarahbby

SarahМама сына (3 года)

Oh yeah man. I know that feeling @wyatts_mommy_0106! And yeah. That's an ABSURD amount of milk. We go through TWO GALLONS in like 2 days.... Because of how much she drinks.

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wyatts_mommy_0106

KrystinМама двоих (младенец)

ooh wow that's a lot of milk. wow some ppl think kids just raise themselves. potty training is hard but they have to stick to it in order to teach her they gonna have their hands full when no one wants to help or watch her cause she is so bad. my sister literally ask me why her kids are so bad I look at her dumbfounded and ask if she's serious that she really don't see why they act the way they do. I hate being seen in public with them.its embrassing

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xsarahbby

SarahМама сына (3 года)

WHAAAAT. @arachelle! Man. I swear to god let my son smack me or anyone else in the face. OR let her smack me in the face. I'll pop her little butt. I don't care. That's so disrespectful.. And her mom is PURPOSEFULLY trying to teach her cus words... Without her dad knowing.. Smh.

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arachelle

AndreaМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

That's exactly how my SIL was with her son, he is now 4 and smacks her in the face.

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xsarahbby

SarahМама сына (3 года)

Oh wow! Yeah she'll be two in March and is still on the bottle.... And she drinks whole milk EVERY time she gets a bottle... Which is whenever she's thirsty because she won't use a sippy cup... Like, one, that much milk is NOT good for kids and their stomachs. And she wonders why every single night she projectile vomits everywhere. That much milk in a little baby belly is NOT healthy. Or good for them at all. Period. And she only uses the potty when SHE feels like it... And they're content with that. They need to start asking her every 10 minutes "hey do you have to go potty?" but no...

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wyatts_mommy_0106

KrystinМама двоих (младенец)

Someone needs to talk some sense into them they just get worse and more outta control as they get older. SMH I'd take my kids toys and tell him not to touchbhers and if she has his toys I'd take mlthem from.her little butt. Like my sister treats her kids like they 10 and they are 2&3. her son will be 4 this January and is still in diapers cause he don't wanna use the potty I told her if he still in diapers he needs to put them on himself she is just letting him make his own decisions and he lazy and outta control does the same things your niece does and then tries to say wait until my son is her sons age and I'll understand umm no I'll whoop my sons ass in a heart beat and he will think twice before disobeying

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xsarahbby

SarahМама сына (3 года)

Oh yeah. @varduim and I'm not telling them what to do... I'm just giving my input, you know?

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varduim

varduimВ ожидании первенца

Yeah that's really annoying. They will regret it very soon, esp as she starts school & interacts with other kids. Then eventually that disrespect is going to be pointed towards them & they will have no 1 to blame but themselves. I'm sorry your poor boy has to deal with that. And I feel sad for her too, because they are not teaching her valuable lessons she will need in life as she grows up.

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xsarahbby

SarahМама сына (3 года)

Yeah. I agree with you @wyatts_mommy_0106 and it sucks because we're roommates so we're stuck together at least until our lease is up in March. So. Hopefully her dad will get some sense talked into him from my fiance, who's his brother. Smh.

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xsarahbby

SarahМама сына (3 года)

That's what I'm saying. @varduim But whenever I give my input or opinions it's "she's my kid". Okay. Whatever then. You know?

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wyatts_mommy_0106

KrystinМама двоих (младенец)

Omg she is gonna be so bad. I have a niece and nephew that are like that if they get popped they hit their mom and she just laughs. if they don't get want they want they scream and cry. if we are at the store they runaway from their mom and she just let's them. they come to my house and break my sons toys and he is 10 months if he is playing with a toy that's his they take it and their moms just like he won't mind he is just a baby. umm no so when she leaves the room.and they take my son stuff I pop them and they them he had it first. and if they don't wanna play nice they can go find their mom and leave. I'm not down with playing favorites you gonna be bad suffer the consequences

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varduim

varduimВ ожидании первенца

*start, not stay

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varduim

varduimВ ожидании первенца

They really need to stay disciplining and get her under control while she is still young.

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