Okay. Here comes a rant.
Words cannot describe how fucking spoiled my niece/god daughter is. Like, it's so frustrating to me. Maybe because I'm a mom also and my sister in law just does things that provoke her instead of trying to break her out of habits. Like, your almost 2 year old should NEVER hit you when they don't get their way.. And neither should your kid NO MATTER how old. You know what I'm saying? And when you just continue to let them do it they're not going to know any better.. And she's just flat out mean. She hits, bites, pinches and smacks my son all the time, he's almost 4. And he's as nice as nice can be. And in my sister in laws eyes, her daughter does no wrong. And her boyfriend, who's also my brother in law (my fiancé's brother & his girlfriend) also thinks that she does no wrong. She legitimately is a TERROR. She throws things, makes messes everywhere and doesn't get in trouble when she does it purposefully... Our parenting styles are clearly different... But damn. And also, if my son has one of her toys... And she starts throwing a fit over it (even though she has 726261010171718102 toys) they'll yell at my son to give her the toys back... Even if she wasn't playing with them.. And if she has one of my son's toys and he wants it, they tell him "she had it first". I just am so not about double standards. Especially when it's unfair to my kid. Like. It's just not fair to him. So. Frustrating.
End rant.