Mommies, am I wrong that I don't want my SO being able to come to my home when he wants? He…
Mommies, am I wrong that I don't want my SO being able to come to my home when he wants? He expressed to me he didn't like that he couldn't come over when he wants to, now more so with our child on the way. He's banned from my home (too much to get into), but I told him that we can definitely come to him and go out on outings. He makes it seem like the only way to see the baby is by coming here, but I feel like he really wants to be here all the time. I don't want that. Am I wrong to feel this way even though I'm not denying him seeing his child? I mean, honestly, I just don't want him in my house all the time (things are growing apart in my eyes but not his).
Hannah Alexandria·
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No girl! He doesn't HAVE to come there. There's a whole world out there where he can meet you. Your home is YOUR space.
Nzuri Ainra·
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Goodness thank you! I feel bad because he wants to be there all the time and I feel smothered just thinking about it. And I know it's not just about the baby, he wants to live together. Im@so not ready for that.
Hannah Alexandria·
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Ehhh. Be upfront and honest! He'll get over it, it's not like you're cutting him out of your lives!
Amanda Scott·
Мама двоих (7 лет, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
You don't want your boyfriend at your house? I'm confused...are you not together anymore?
Nzuri Ainra·
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@saw tlilangl, it's a lot going on that has things very rocky. One of the main reasons I began to fall out of love is the fact that I see no stability in him and I grew tired of always coming out of pocket and covering 95% funded outings and such. Him wanting to move in with me and my three kids felt like he was using me as a security blanket because he is on tough times. Ill admit, there were a lot of red flags when we started but I ignored them thinking they were temporary, but some things should be in check at the age of 37. This little blessing wasn't planned, but omg I'm in love with her, and so is he.
Zyanya·
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@swtlilangl,