how do you mommas not try to conceive but get pregnant easier than trying? I really want a baby!!…

It sucks!! I tried for 10 months and though it would never happen. I even went as far as buying the preseed lube, and I even went online and bought this conceiving kit called conceive easy and I swear nothing seemed to help and I finally just gave up trying and the next month I ended up pregnant! It's like when you quit trying is when it happens! Made me so mad tho! Lol

so what should I do? I tried for two months.

When you don't try to get pregnant it takes all the stress off your body wether you realize you have stress and worry or not, it takes it all away and let's your body relax which will release more hormones to help out :) and iv heard that if you take a relaxing bubble bath with lavender oil, make him rub your feet, then have sex after it doubles your chances :)

we've been "trying" for two years and finally just got lucky I guess. lol.

Don't try. It works.

so what do I do then?

I was depressed after having a miscarriage with my previous boyfriend before I met my hubby and his best friend invited a girl over to our apartment who had a baby and I dissapeared and cried my eyes out because I wasn't ready to be around that but he came and found me and listened to what I had a to say and he knew I wanted a baby and we tried for a little while every time I had sex I was thinking I just want to be pregnant please god let me get my baby and one night we did it... It and I just prayed to god okay god you're right maybe I'm not ready to have a baby I will just wait and whenever you bless me with it I will know I'm ready my conception date tracks back to right around that time now we have two wonderful boys and a wonderful little girl baby on the way your time will come 😊

awe! but idk what I should do..

just remember to relax and take breaks to have fun Iin between trying sometimes people try so hard and get stressed and after they let go a little and forget for a second about having a baby then they got pregnant. it is important for you to take a break for yourself :)

my fiance and i tried for a long time and when we finally gave up like a month later I was pregnant. the moment you stop trying it happens. give it time hun it'll happen when the time is right ☺

I agree with @katorismommy as soon as my boyfriend an I stopped trying it happened 😍 just don't think about it

it seems like it happens as soon as you quit trying everytime @zyairemommy244

it happens when you stop obsessing over it lol I was obsessed and then I completely forgot I just tested my ovulation day and when the 2 lines were dark I would ttc that day. and once I stopped lol I didn't even notice my symptoms bt I got pregnant literly the month I stopped stressing over it.

okay thank you lovely mommas. (: I'm gonna stop trying & just let it happen. :)

and dnt forget you can always watch my vids on youtube never stress and b patient