So I've been doing the whole not cuddle my son to sleep for every nap or bed time and I seriously…
So I've been doing the whole not cuddle my son to sleep for every nap or bed time and I seriously miss him. I feel distant from him. 😩 I don't know if I want to really do this whole cry it out thing 😢
Bria·
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If your first instinct is to soothe him that's what you should be doing, you have mommy instincts for a reason!!!
Emily·
Мама сына-младенца
It's not the crying really that bothers me. I just miss him 😕 @bria.k
Bria·
В ожидании первенца
You should torture yourself and have him crying for no reason though! If you want to go though with the crying it out, by all means, I'm not gonna tell you how to parent. You've got this! But if it's make you and him feel better I don't see an issue! I'm probably a little biased though because I'm all for co sleeping and attachment parenting. A lot of the time though, the dads or grandmas or whoever will say that you're spoiling the child and should let them self soothe, but babies are really bad at self soothing because they rely on mom and dad to be there for them. They don't have coping mechanisms except the ones they were born with, to cuddle and to suckle. So if you wanna cuddle that baby go cuddle!!
missing10user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
yeah I couldn't do it. I rock my baby to sleep every nap. every one has something to say about it but I Dont Care. Hes my baby and I'm gonna treat him like one for as long as he will let me
Natalie·
I'm all for co-sleeping its all up to you I'd you feel he needs to be soothed you should