Pregnant and my husband stopped kissing me, bathing with me, and we haven't had sex in 5 months
I just asked my husband that ever since I'm pregnant why doesn't he kiss me anymore, take baths with me, showers, and we haven't even had intercourse in 5 months, and he stays quiet. So I tell him why didn't he say anything back. and his response was...idk because I'm tired right now. Idk why it broke my heart, I couldn't hold back my tears. Am I exaggerating 😔
williamsbaby2016·
No, you're not exaggerating. He shouldn't be doing you that way and I would be wondering too if my husband was acting like that. Hope everything gets better!
bella🌻·
I agree u are not exaggerating at all. It's wrong for him to treat u like that whatever the reason is. Pregnancy and postpartum are very vulnerable times in a woman's life where ur self esteem may be low Bc of all the drastic changes in your body. .. and for him to act like that I can imagine must be making u wonder and feel insecure.
Teresa·
Aww .. your beautiful hun.. I think we all struggle with different things during our pregnancies. I myself struggle with a few changes with my man too.. nothing major but little changes that I dont like...but I just keep telling myself I wont be pregnant forever. And I try to stay focused on the baby growing inside me and how its the most important thing right now. Im sure men struggle with their own feelings and although it doesn't make it right for him to be that way with you.. just know your not alone. I sometimes think they don't realize how they are being. Just continue to keep an open communication with him and try not to let his ways get you down.
Bets 💛·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (35 нед.)
@williamsbaby2016, thank you, I hope so too. My self esteem gas dropped to the grounds ever since I'm pregnant.
Bets 💛·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (35 нед.)
@kibella22, yes I constantly think he's cheating. His response was just so cold. Hopefully he knows how I'm feeling hurts.
Bets 💛·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (35 нед.)
@mommy_thatgirl, thank you for that! it always helps for someone to remind us that we are not all that bad. I was so confident before, idk what happened to me. We just talked, and he said he's been caught up in the pregnancy and me being sick and what not, but that he really does love me, I just don't know what to believe at this point.
Deleted·
He's tired ! Oh yeah fine, ask him when he's not tired and make that conversation happen !!! As a mother you need to be strong but cordial. When you seem to over emotional in such a sensitive topic sometimes men tend to lie to not argue. Assure him that it wouldn't be an argument and that whatever it is you will get threw it for your marriage. If he still is not trying to have the conversation after you calmly spoke to him about it, stop doing things for him. Put your foot down and show him you're serious about making a change. He WILL respond to that. And how he responds to that will show you what you need to do next. I really hope this will help, with everyone I know, it does help. But I may warn you, it can get ugly but no matter what you don't ever be the one to make it ugly especially if he is wrong ✌🏾️
Bets 💛·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (35 нед.)
@peaceinfall, such great advice!! thank you so much, hope it helps