Nightly Encouragement (a little bit of everything ) : "Every Queen needs a King , lets not get it…

Nightly Encouragement (a little bit of everything ) :

"Every Queen needs a King , lets not get it confused though , this queen can hold this castle down on her own."

You are not just a baby mama, you are not just his ex , you are not just another statistic . You are a mother , a wonderful human being , and you are beautiful. Stop looking at your baby's father for confirmation as to why things didn't work out , or why he won't help with the pregnancy . YOU got this ! And if he doesn't want to be an active part of his child's life THAT IS FINE ! Don't force him to !! When that child is the president , or the next NFL star or the next Popstar that child won't be giving their father the credit . They will give that credit to you ! I saw what it was like to be a single mom and everyday I saw how strong my mother was ! That gave me the confidence to strive in life ! You are beautiful , you are amazing , and you are a queen . Today you are going to stop throwing a pity party for yourself and you're going to pull it together ! You are going to take steps toward becoming a victor rather than hiding behind your problems and becoming a victim ! I mean ladies we can eliminate so many of our problems if we changed our way of thinking ! And if you feel like you have prove to your SO/Baby daddy /friend that you deserve RESPECT , Take a step back , re-evaluate your relationship and respect yourself even more to walk away from a relationship that doesn't serve you , grow you, or make you happy . Some people will never apologize but mommies forgive them ANYWAY and keep on moving . Most people don't apologize because they are ashamed ! Be okay with the apology you'll never get ! I promise they'll regret doing you wrong ! 😘