some girls should shut the hell up .. they always say if you don't have something nice to say then don't say it ! I hate judgmental people with closed minded views .

I need help!

I have to plan my own baby shower.

Only thing, I don't know how to plan one. I don't have an idea where to have it. I live in an apartment so that's out of the question. I was thinking about a restaurant but I'm not sure I can afford that right now. And I would do a park, I just don't want to get rained out. I'm planning for March 19th.

I also don't know what type of food or snacks?

My theme is elephants. I know that for sure.

Biggest Baby on BB

I know I don't have the biggest baby here but I know he's right up there.

Am I the only one that does NOT have a birth plan? I mean I just plan on going with the flow really...

did anyone NOT go on birth control after having their baby? I don't plan on having another for at least a year, but I really dislike birth control and I know most doctors push for it?