Should I let my x know when labor starts

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,

his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

I switched positions in bed and liquid starting coming out I figured it was pee .. I changed and wiped .. i went to lay down again and more came out .. so I changed and wiped .. now for the 3rd time I tried to lay down and I have more coming out .. only when I tried to lay down not standing up .. I don't understand if it was my water wouldn't it come out while I was standing up

When do you find out the gender of the baby?!😩😩 i wanna know i wanna know!!!

I know I've posted this before but when your water was leaking did it stay leaking or just with movements or what? Did you get contractions shortly after or no? I rolled out of bed and felt warmth leak out but Idk if it was possibly urine or what...never had it happen. It didn't smell like anything really...I know I should either call l&d or go in but I just want some experiences please. I want to wait a bit just in case it's nothing.