so we went tonight to put my daughter's toys that she picked on layaway for Christmas... so my husband says when we go to do it that we should just buy them now since he doesn't know if he'll have money then or not... I said alright and took my daughter back into the store so he could do whatever.... well now he's mad at me because we spent 350 INCLUDING HIS 40 BUCK EXPRESSO machine... but now he's being super mean to me because he spent that much... I told him I can give him $100 towards it when I get my check from working the elections but that wasn't even good enough and it was I don't want your fucking money! so I just wanna smack him because he's being mean but it's like that's all I can do! there's nothing else I can do right now :/
he sure will!! and it's Christmas not like it's just for nothing!!! @babycasey
Yeah exactly but no it took me 4 years to get a debit card that had access to all the dam money! it's annoying!
I'd tell him get tf over it. I agree with @3.26.16 it's his child too, and y'all are married so don't act surprised. It should be family money anyways. Hubs and I don't do mine and yours. Once vows were exchanged, everything became us, we and ours.
it just so annoying like I buy for everyone but his dad for Christmas I buy for all my little cousins, my parents, sisters and his uncle so I mean I gotta do all that with about 15
hell be okay its his child too if he didn't have the money I'm pretty sure you would've been making it happen all by yourself
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Ladies I need help from anyone who is willing. But this might be a bit of a TMI. So warning. My SO and I were attempting to get intimate tonight and he stopped and freaked out because he said that he can feel the baby while we were doing it and now he will not have sex with me at all because 1. He feels like he's touching the baby with his "parts" and 2. He can feel him in my stomach when he's against me. Please help ladies!!! I don't know what to do. 😔
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
exactly! not like you just went on a pointless random spending spree... then I could see being a tad bit upset lol