my husband has been complaining that I let our 2 month old daughter fall asleep on me way too much.…
my husband has been complaining that I let our 2 month old daughter fall asleep on me way too much. Saying that I'm already teaching her that it's always okay to sleep on me.
She still sleeps a lot during the day and she will take most of her naps on my chest I usually keep her there and just watch netflix or what not. but at night for bedtime once she falls asleep on me I'll put her in her crib and she sleeps in there at night.
am I in the wrong for teaching her too early that she can always sleep on me or is this all nonsense?
Lily Freeman·
В ожидании первенца
it could make her a little spoiled thinking she can only sleep if shes held..
Jazmyn Kruger·
Мама дочки-младенца
yeah I get where he comes from with that but I have also put her down while awake and she has fallen asleep fine by her self.
but I mean she is still super young.
maybe I could lay her down a little more for nap time.
Brittany·
Мама сына (1 год)
I allowed my son to do that and not lay down because I always said he's only young once and allowed him to sleep in my bed just a couple times and now 13 months later I can not leave him to even go pee or sit him down for me to fix me a cup of water. So I can definitely see where he's coming from because she's going to get attached to you and only to you. My son refuses to even sit with someone else so it's definitely rough.
Jazmyn Kruger·
Мама дочки-младенца
I definitely get where he comes from and I don't think he's completely wrong. I don't want her to get too attached. but at the same time she is still very young and does sleep by herself through the night. but like I said maybe I'll just have to put her down more for nap time so she doesn't get too attached
missing171user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
You. Can't spoil a baby, and if she has no problem sleeping in her crib as well I wouldn't worry enjoy your cuddle time mana
missing171user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Mama**
Bria·
В ожидании первенца
I don't think you can spoil a child with comfort, love, and affection. She can sleep on you all you want, and all she wants, and nothing bad will come out of it. You'll get a happy well adjusted baby with confidence that her mommy loves her and will always be there for her. There's nothing wrong with that!
Jazmyn Kruger·
Мама дочки-младенца
that's how I see it. but I also don't think he is completely wrong. but I do love snuggling with my baby! 💜
when she is older I will try putting her down more and more just so she does get more used to sleeping completely by herself.
missing169user·
@bria.k, You said what I was going to say but better lol you can't spoil a BABY with their basic needs.
Cristina·
Мама подростков
Its okay but sometimes its best to put her in her crib when she sleeps because if she gets use to sleeping on your chest alot. then she won't sleep in her bed and always want to be on you and you will get tired. I was the same way but I had to get my daughter use to sleeping in her bed instead of on me. because it'll be a mistake I will make when I will get no sleep later on.
aturpin200·
Мама сына-младенца
I let my baby sleep on me nothing wrong with tht but yhe fact she sleeps in her crib some is good my baby boy is 2 months