So me and my fiancé both live together at his parents house but we set up both houses.. And I just I want to be a my parents house after our son is born((sounds selfish I bet)) but it's because I'll fell more secure there and I won't be alone. Where over at his house I'm nearly always along with the dogs. His mom is a caregiver and is trying to get me to file for something so SHE CAN GET PAID for watching my son, nobody should really be getting paid to watch him unless it's like a babysitter not his grandma getting paid though the state to watch him when I need a break. It's just gahh I don't know how to tell my fiancé my wishes I guess is the issue.