I am at such a loss right now. I think my marriage is over. Even though I am a Christian and I don't…

try marriage counseling

I agree with marriage counseling. If God isn't in a relationship it won't workout period.

Maybe try marriage counseling or some time apart or both

Try counseling first 😟 please if God has other plans accept it but you're here a baby's coming and maybe help on the outside will help I hope it turns out positive

Yes i agree with @jamielynn07. Alot of the times arguments are over stupid things. If your husband is willing to try marriage counseling and you still want to work things out then i would deff go for it. Hope everything works out between you guys 💗

I'm not married. But when things get rough in our relationship to the point to where its constant fighting ill go to my moms for the day, spend the night if i feel its best. Normally my bf is blowing my phone up throughout the night.. lol he never lasts. Dont give up momma.. marriage is worth trying to make things work. Best of luck!

Honey I have been there. And I mean everything you are saying is what I went through. The fighting was unbearable and unhealthy. I was just there not to long ago. We tried everything even counseling. Finally we decided to separate while he was deployed and stayed separated for 6 months. He came home and with a fresh start we decided to work on things. Our marriage is so much better now!! I know exactly what you are feeling and it is not easy to go through. I pray for you to find peace and that everything goes the way it is supposed to! If you need to talk message me!

and to help avoid arguments when things seem like you guys are going to start yelling or arguing say i love you more than this argument and go into another room! its hard but helps!

I would try counseling but my husband says that it is just a waste of time and he's too busy for it. I do want to work things out because of the baby but he doesn't seem to care. I'm going to keep praying about it and just take it one step at a time I guess but it hurts so much 😢

@floress_j, @hward12 @jamielynn07 @junesmommy15 @mimiz @rainbowlovebugbunny @sandycheeks

I'm happily married and we go once a month just to improve our communication. my husband and I have different views on alot of things and he works away so we don't have alot of time. but you HAVE to make the time. it's worth it. it helps us tremendously. I also believe in making a marriage work if there isn't adultery or abuse and trust me bringing a baby into the world makes it challenging to work on your marriage. so do it now while you have the time. babies can feel the stress. BUT the way I look at it is that I didn't decide to have a baby to "share" custody. times get tough for me and my husband but at the end of the day one of us trys hard enough to make it work. keep the faith. it will work out!

The first married year is the hardest, more so if you're pregnant. He may not think counseling is a waste of time if he thought it was either that or divorce for you. And if he still thinks it's a waste of time, then he's a waste of yours.