I wish I would have been with the right person before I got pregnant. I know it wasn't planned & I was on birth control…

@lilpeanut92, exactly, I want to be that happy in love couple but we have so many problems & constantly fighting

@xomermaid,

@xoxermaid, I'm with you I thought I was the only one. Everyone on here seem so happy with they're couples and it makes me really sad. Cause I can't really count on my baby dad he is really selfish also and doesn't want to get a second job. We are always back and forth and I just want us to be together happy for the baby

@kiarajx, So do I, I hope everything works out for us ... and same to you hun!

And if you need someone to talk to, I'm here!

Yea I hope it gets better for the both of us.. I know it's important for kids to have their fathers in their life, so I'm trying to hold on, but I don't know how much I could take... Hopefully as time goes on we could be that family I want us to be..

@donnajo, you too !

I'm sorry hun. best of luck to you and your situation!

@donnajo, mine has kids already and complains about child support and doesn't pay it so its coming out of his checks now so i told him I really wouldn't want shit from him

I'm in the same boat. except he's already told me he won't be a part of her life he'll just provide child support. I don't want his money. I want a family. and I want him to be a part of her life. I don't know my real dad and I definitely have an emptiness inside from it..

@kiarajx, that's what I'm hoping for too. and trust me rant all you want because I am too haha . I really don't have anyone else I can talk about this with cause my friends (very few because I lost a lot when I got pregnant including "best friend" ) don't want to hear it or change the subject and talk about their boyfriends not buying them things whenever they want but they get treated like Queens already

Girl I know how you feel! I feel the same way about my boyfriend. We've been together for 5 years (he was my hs sweetheart) and I just feel like our relationship is falling to pieces now. He's not the same as he used to be. He once said he'd always be there for me but he hasn't been there as much as I needed him to be during my pregnancy...He wouldn't even go to not one appointment of mine. He's been so distant lately and I just feel so alone sometimes. I have always been there for him when I needed him, so i don't know what I've done wrong... I'm hoping he comes around as soon as his first son is born.. Sorry I went on that rant, but it just makes me so upset how he's been treating me lately 😞😢 hopefully these men will come around and get their act together as soon as they see their child.

Hes gotten a little better with being selfish but it still shows that he cares more about what he has materially rather than anything else and that gets on my nerves considering we don't have a lot of money and my moms the one spending the most money for my daughter. he hasn't bought anything and I don't even feel right asking him to anymore . @royalmommy

if I leave him , I know he won't be a part of her life for long ... which might be for the best ... I don't want him lying to her and treating her just as bad as he does with me

My daughters father is Sooo selfish girl I didn't understand how a human could be born this way. And it's not like he was raised fucked up or anything he's just him Ugh and But if he can change n stick to it then see what happens. If not you make the necessary steps everything will be ok

I also never wanted to be the stereotypical single teen mom . but I don't care anymore , that was before my mom and I started talking again... & as long as I have her I feel so much more secure .

sometimes it is better to not be together but they can still have both parents either ways but I hope it gets easier for you

i left when i was 3 months pregnant. it's not easy, I went threw the depression and feeling like it was all my fault and hating myself because i had to do it all on my own. but I feel stronger more, and happy. he chose to not be a part of our baby's life

I feel like I want to give him a chance but I've given a lot , although he has gotten a lot better since Ive been getting farther along... I had so much patience with him but its running thin very fast now @royalmommy

I was there 7yrs ago and I couldn't take it I left when my daughter was like 2. I don't regret it she's fine. Happiness is so important n kids can feel it.

thank you girls @mummyshipley @babypaxtongrace @mrsmord. I just want to figure everything out and what I'm going to do before I have my daughter ... I've been trying to do that since I found out I was pregnant and I really don't have that much time left

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It's better for her to have to sets of parents then to grow up in a home where the parents don't love each other and treat each other badly , trust me . My parents are still together and they had a horrible marriage - and I have a lot of emotional scarring and a lot of damage because of that . I would much rather see them separate and happy then together and miserable .

You may have and sadly there's nothing you can do about it but god knows what he's doing everything happens for a reason

sometimes its beat fr the child if the parents are together. kids picknup on yr stress and depression, trust me. my 9 year old finally told me she's happy to see me happy fr the first time in years. stay strong hun, and do what yu feel is best fr yu and yr baby.