Ladies, I'm 18 weeks pregnant and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I'm turning 20 and he's 21. We have our arguments what relationship doesnt.. But ever since I have gotten pregnant he has been so far up his mother's ass it's actually kind of weird. She introduced him to bars and line dancing. Wich was okay until it started interfering with our relationship.. He thinks he has to be there every Wednesday and Friday with her. Any other time he's at home playing xbox until it's time for bed.. We have nothing saved up for our child. I would be working if I wasn't a high risk pregnancy. I'm afraid that once this baby is born nothing is going to change and I'll be raising it practically by myself. I'm not wanting any rude comments.. I have become very emotional over all this.. I guess I'm just looking for advice
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A lot of it is probably his age and maturity level. My first husband was very immature and did nothing to help me or our kids. If you don't think he's going to change then don't be like me and waste 8 years figuring it out. It may take something drastic like you leaving for him to realize you are serious. That's what it took for me but when he actually started trying I was too far gone.
@pattyp24, I've tried everything. but he will always run to his mommy. ):
@pattyp24, He gives mixed emotions all the time. like one day he will all for baby and baby stuff and the next is like he could care less if I was even around..
do what you gotta do for you and the baby
Sorry to hear that ): glad you have moved on to better though! I mean the only thing I can do is sit down and put my foot down.. and if the baby comes and nothing changes then I will walk away. because I know I will better my life and my child's