Okay mommas who are 16 weeks or have already went they the 16th week.. I need some help.. I'm a first time momma. I'm having lots of pain in my abdomin when I bend, stand to long or sit wrong. I can't lay on my back without lower back pain. If I lay on either of my sides, my legs go numb. And tmi, it hurts to have sex.. And I'm having more discharge then normal the other night it was like I pee'd as I was wiping.. Is this normal?? Help!!!