@arijane316, well thanks. I'm just feeling like everything is on me and my husband is piling more on me. he wants to buy this home that doesn't have a sink, fridge, or stove in it. the home needs cleaning and to be tested for led paint. he said we are only going to be there thru winter time and then leave. I'm like we'll why buy it then. we need a home that's ready to move in before baby comes. this baby might decide to come next month for all we know. I understand his idea with the house. it's just not good timing. then the money for this home would come from me. right now we stay 30 minutes apart from each other. I'm trying to get him to move over where I am due to less crime and violence. he isnt hearing it. everyone wants me to mold to them but won't even bend a little for me
I wouldn't do it. that's too much stress on you. if your house is big enough for the 3 of you, live there. it's not your job to work your life around everyone elses. your job right now is being a mother.
pattalee·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (24 нед.)
you can talk to us ! that's what we're here for
amanda·
Мама подростка, беременна (33 нед.)
@arijane316, well thanks. I'm just feeling like everything is on me and my husband is piling more on me. he wants to buy this home that doesn't have a sink, fridge, or stove in it. the home needs cleaning and to be tested for led paint. he said we are only going to be there thru winter time and then leave. I'm like we'll why buy it then. we need a home that's ready to move in before baby comes. this baby might decide to come next month for all we know. I understand his idea with the house. it's just not good timing. then the money for this home would come from me. right now we stay 30 minutes apart from each other. I'm trying to get him to move over where I am due to less crime and violence. he isnt hearing it. everyone wants me to mold to them but won't even bend a little for me
pattalee·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (24 нед.)
I wouldn't do it. that's too much stress on you. if your house is big enough for the 3 of you, live there. it's not your job to work your life around everyone elses. your job right now is being a mother.
amanda·
Мама подростка, беременна (33 нед.)
@arijane316, I'm trying not to stress. I feel like nothings right and I'm not ready. I have a guy feeling my little guy will be here next month.
pattalee·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (24 нед.)
just tell everyone you're not going to cater to their needs