I don't live with my boyfriend because of my schooling. So I come over to the house on weekends and we have family time. Well I ended up staying a few days more than I hold have so I decided I was gonna clean and cook him some meals for the week (the boy can't even boil water without burning it). I cleaned the kitchen got the dishes in the dishwasher, cleaned the bedroom bathroom and living room. I then started to cook his favorite meal, spaghetti. I told him I had done all these things for him. And what do I get back in return? Good. That's all he said to me. Good. Pissed me off!! 😡 I'm not your maid I'm not someone who comes over to cook and clean. I'm your girlfriend and the mother of your child. You don't say good to me when I do something. I don't live here I don't make a mess. I didn't have to clean up your dirty dishes. But I did because I love you and I want you to live in a clean house. I want our baby to grow up in a clean house. I just don't know what to say. It hurt me a lot. Like he thinks of me as someone who will cook and clean for him. 😔😔😔
no what u did was awesome. no doubt very thoughtful... maybe its #jerkDAY God will bless u
I don't do a lot of wifely things because I know it's easy to get taken advantage of. And the only reason I cooked for him was so he wouldn't starve while I was gone this week 😂😂 like I said he can't even boil water. And he works two jobs to help with his daughter. Which I'm thankful for. I just. Idk. I thought he was better than that.
same here. I use to get mad but I'm over it now.