some moms are going to hate this post but frankly I dgaf. I can say this because its true like it or not. if a mom…

tru. because in a situation like this no one is wrong or right. the miracles of babies are amazing so who knows what to expect. @mrsschutte1323

@mumof2, that's just it though. It's just my opinion. It's not wrong or right :)

exactly and I totally agree with you. Im not going to tell you that you are wrong for your opinion @mrsschutte1323

I personally think that everyone should just let their babies be born when their babies are ready to be born unless there is a Medical issue preventing that from happening like @aleisha94 there's nothing wrong with waiting 42 weeks@mamalamadingdong the thing is a "due date" is just a goal. It's not wrong for the baby to go past that. Doctors don't usually let that happen because they don't want the baby to get too big. That can cause damage. There's a lot of women who think they know everything because they read about it but whether they talk to every single mama out there or read every single book or article it comes down to every. Single. Woman. Is different. Completely different. Every pregnancy. Every baby. Every delivery. Every situation. So nobody should be judging anyone. Everyone just breathe.

it's not my fault you can't take criticism. oh well.

@mamalamadingdong,

no I'm saying this too any mom you aren't the only one did i tag your name or something in the post what do you think I'm scared to do that trust me if I'm talking about one person I'll make that clear. but obviously you can't comprehend but its ok.

because I'm not misinformed some women can have complications but I never said all women that's why I said everybodies experiences are different

OK sorry. not trying to argue about this I'll be bigger person because tbh Hun this conversation we having really isn't all that serious. so yes you are right. and yes I agree with it being OK I just said that going passed 40 weeks could and could not definitely cause complications just as if some women who deliver before 37 weeks can have complications. it's not always the case sometimes but chance definitely lessons the further along you are. that's all I was saying and I felt offended by you telling me I need to do more research I'm like for what?? what I said wasn't wrong.

This is too crazy, I'm done lol. I am not going to continue to feed into this unnecessary drama. I hope others with a level-head will read this and realize that, too. Bye.

And what IS drama is you posting a sub thread with the intention to discredit me ("preppy moms who only listen to doctors," etc) when you are completely wrong about me.

Are you serious right now, lol? Please quote me where I ever said anything about not respecting anyone's decision on when or when not to deliver! I never said anything of the sort! I was defending the fact that it can be okay to go past 40. I spoke up because there is too much fear-mongering and misinformation about going past term. Please reread the original conversation.

it's not drama its being realistic because I don't hold my tongue or opinions for no one and if you don't like it block me because just like I will allow u to have your opinion I will not be denied mines. it's my right to write what ever I want Hun. @mamalamadingdong

and im just being straight up with you. and if you can sit here and tell me that you can agree with that then I will apologize but if you say no its not right then I will not apologize. because you should feel that moms should make their own decisions. @mamalamadingdong

um no. I respect your decision the problem is you don't respect other moms decisions to not wait that long and that's not right.. @mamalamadingdong

And no one said anything about it being wrong or right to deliver at any given week... but you. So it seems crazy to me that you are creating all this drama on hypocritical grounds.

Also, my decision to wait until 42 weeks did not come from a "textbook," it came from asking many "real" moms and reading lots of experiences from blogs. Judgmental much?

exactly there is nothing wrong with deciding to go to 40 weeks but if a mom can't hold out that long that's her business

It's to much pain for me I can't stand for long it's sad I can't get anything done... If women choose to Hold on til 40 weeks I feel for them it's not a problem but my doctor dont really do her job so I'm finna do what i need to do

Everyone is different. I haven't had a full term baby yet 😞 35weeks with my son and 32 with my daughter. I'm praying for 40 this time.

exactly. just like a book isn't going to set you up for your experience with baby because babies are all different too. my baby slept after I came home from hospital and some moms go through being up all hours of the night. all people's experiences are different @bets

1. I'm not a "preppy" mom. 2. Yes, I read lots of articles, lots of studies. 3. My doctor is neither a doctor or a male- she is a midwife. If you're going to create a separate post to indirectly insult me, then at least get your facts straight.

Yes books, dr's words, and Google' are these type of girls best friends. We know our own bodies and decide what we want!

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woman bodies are different too. my pelvis is tilted not all women are going through that.

it is true you have these preppy moms who love reading articles and listening to their drs all the time how about ask real moms. how am I going to get information from my male Dr who never had a child because he is quote on quote a man. so they learn things out of text books not by experience

amen!!!💁💁💁

Cause I'm not going past 38 Weeks I Can't Do It

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