Anyone else know their SO cares, but wish they would show it more? Wish they were more supportive during your pregnancy, or just do a little more for you? I know my man loves/cares about me & our kids, but damn man c'mon.... Talk to the baby, rub my belly more, anything!!! Ugh, he's so frustrating :/
This is our 2nd baby. He was more involved with our 1st, but it probably didn't start till I really started getting a belly & the baby was moving more... But with this one, the only time he rubs my belly or speaks to the baby is when we're laying down to go to bed.. After I had our son, he kept saying he missed my belly & all that. So I assumed that he'd be just as if not more "loving" this time. But man was I wrong...
I feel you! I was under the imprecision my hubby would be rubbing it more and talking to the baby a lot more, since we were trying for a while and this baby is totally planned. He sometimes texts "I love you both" but besides that he rarely rubs the belly, he has only been to 2 appointments, when I have one every 3 weeks, and he rarely speaks to the baby. I think it may be because I'm only 18 weeks, and maybe it will change when he starts to feel him moving.
Makes me sad sometimes....