DESPERATE FOR ADVICE!!
So like a month ago I had picked up my finances phone to search on Google chrome. I clicked the chrome icon and the last page viewed popped up and was a transsexual porn site. So I looked at the history and he's been searching gay and shemale porn for some time and I never knew. When I asked him about it he said he was just curious. At first I took that as an answer and left it alone. It was still eating at me and I brought it up once more. Then he tells me he had a family friend that had molested him as a child and he was watching it because it reminded him of what he doesn't want to be. Sounds like bullshit if u ask me.
Yesterday I was looking through my old messages on Facebook and came across a message a man sent me back in May. It was screenshots of a sexual conversation between two men on Craig's list. I remembered reading it and saying out loud wtf. I showed it to him and he replied and said don't send my girl this bullshit. The emails had only the name of the guy that sent them to me but not the other persons.
Thinking back I feel like that was a warning and I just brushed it off. I asked him was he the other person and he swears he isn't.
I've tried to contact the guy that sent them so I could ask questions and get the information I need. I haven't heard from him yet but I have a friend that is friends with his ex girlfriend. She left him after finding out he was carrying on a homosexual lifestyle behind her back.
I am so crushed because I know in my heart it probably was my fiance on the other end. He says I won't just let it go so we can move on with our lives.
What would you think or do? I don't think I can be with a gay or even bi man.
Any thoughts or opinions would be greatly appreciated.