🚨NEED OPINIONS!🚨 So, I've been married to my husband for almost five months and we're expecting twin boys. Is it wrong that today I took it upon myself to get in contact with his ex/the mother of his first child? She had no idea that I even existed. And his excuse as to why he doesn't post about me on social media or tell her anything is to avoid drama. What do you guys think?
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Well its silly of you to want to be Facebook official, but it is VERY silly of him to think somehow you 2 won't ever need to be in contact and that keeping you a secret to avoid drama will last forever.
@victoriaaarproctor, I honestly think that there should be no reason at all to why he should be hiding you from her or anyone & I don't think your overreacting if anything it's him 😥
She is a very bitter b!tch, lol. And I don't want to say anything to make her mad to where she would take it out on him using his daughter. He actually deactivated his Facebook because I wouldn't shut up about him not letting my presence be known. He makes me feel like I'm over reacting when I bring this stuff up. Oh, and he doesn't know that I've talked to her. He's overseas.
I understand not caring about Facebook, but he has to be in contact with the ex, and she should be aware of his new obligations and marriage.
I call bs😕Absolutly not you have every right how are y'all married and she didn't know about you nope not happening drama simple delete & block her because she is the past you are his present and future he should care more about how you feel and whats happening with you....having a child with someone doesn't make you stuck to them...if his caring for his child he has with her whats the problem sorry hun but that would be a dam red flag for me...why hide?? Smhh men now days😒...he need to respect you and give you your place plain and simple!!!just keep it classy 😋👌🏻
specially because they have kid's together and you are his wifey and pregnant.. go ahead
@tbella91, I agree with you 🤗
idk what i would do but i would be a tad bit pissed lol to avoid drama he can block his ex on social media but she would have found out anyway so idk why he would hide it
Go ahead! i would have done the same thing you need to let the bitch know whats up
i call bullshit sweety. she needs to know and why would he hide it? let it be known
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
I will be 41 :/
AF due 29th, anyone else?
Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
@tahtahme, i understand the whole official fb thing but not acknowledging her presence its kinda odd don't you think?yea men are funny he rather deactivate his fb then actually letting it be known...honestly you contacted her you should let it be...just cause your pregnant at the moment and that's simply stress you don't need especially if his over seas...any one would react that way if they where being denied or hidden girl believe...i would men just dont like when you tell em shit or try to prove em wrong they assume they handle everything the right way....just be prepared because he will find out just keep calm & cool u dont need the stress