This is not pregnancy related. I am seriously at a loss and idk what to do. Im not a violent person…

your better than me I would've slapped her your her older sister she needs to respect you.

Lol Im in your shoes when I visit my parents, Im 22 my sister is 12 and my parents never discipline her but if she gets smart with me ill make her go to her room. I always tell her that I may be your sister but im an adult and you will have respect. Ill take away her phone and privileges if she gets out of hand. I guess you can say im her 2nd mom figure lol

oh no, if she was my sister I would of disciplined that ass. she needs to learn respect for you

@3.26.16, its getting to a point where i cnt restrain from hitting her when she starts this. @des_a_rayy i try to tell her to go to her room and she basically laughs at me she has no respect hardly any for my parents she back mouths then and tells them not to tell her how to live her life.

@maliksmommie, id try but shes in the generation of calling cops. I dont need something agenst me where my sons father will have the upper hand of getting my son

oh wow. in my house that wouldn't of every happened. I hope you get your own place soon. kids pick up on things and I know you don't want your little one doing that. .

oh wow, see this may sound bad but I disciplined my brothers from when they are little so they know when they get popped its cause they fucked up. I think this generation is going to shit. my son will be disciplined that's for sure

Yeah, all it takes is one time that you reach your breaking point & amping out on her and she will correct herself. The problem is her bad behavior is inadvertently being rewarded by them not punishing/reprimanding her. Someone needs to do something.

What I do if she doesnt go ill grab her by her arm and put her in there. I always tell her if she opens that door its gonna be longer and ill leave her in there for a couple of hours. One day her teacher called me because she was being disrepectful in class towards him and I took her phone away for a week and I tell my parents if your not going to do something I will.

& I have smacked her arm before not hard but she knows now that she cant be getting out of line

you should whip her teenage butt!!! one good time and that's the only time you'll need to do it. she's gonna continue to do what she does bcuz u run in the room every time she gets out if hand..... you gotta nip that in the bud SOON.

I would have smacked her in her place I'd be damnd if somebody acts like that around my baby next time calk the coos tell then she's acting crazy

@maliksmommie, it is going to shit and my son will be disciplined as well i aint letting him be a little shit. My older brother and younger brother know better then to act lik that to me but i cnt touch her @bgabby i wish i cud shes always been the "angel" of the family. @des_a_rayy i had her phone turned off it use to be under my line then it went to my parents line. @caseclosed2015 i want to i did it with the boys but i cnt touch her if i do my parents get involved. I hav gotten her before not horribly but i got her once n it didnt end well for me

Your an adult and her OLDER sister she has to respect you she hits you hit her back she disrespects you punish her shes only doing that cause you let her she feels like you wont do anything so she doesn't respect your authority

If you told your parents and they did nothing then I'd let them and your sister know that the next time it happens you will call the police. But you actually need to do it if it happens again... not just say you will and then not, because she'll get worse. Explain to both your parents and your sister that her behavior is unacceptable, and you should not feel unsafe in your own home. I'd also tell them that if you can't trust her not to hurt you, then you also can't trust her not to hurt your baby. It's important that your parents and your sister know how serious you are about this. Do NOT hit her, because you risk her calling the cops on you and you getting not only an assault charge but also child abuse charges which could then alert CPS and they could take your child. Not trying to scare you but these are all realistic consequences if you hit her. Your best move is to give her and your parents fair warning that you will call the cops next time, and follow through on it.

@levleah, i was just thinking about that and yes thats why i havent tried to hit her at all since zebs been born i dont need thats stuff nor does he need to go to his dads. So i was trying to think of a none violent way to deal with it and trust me i cops that are friends (she dont kno that) so it would work

@zebsmomma15, good! I think that's the best plan.