I'm not judging anyone!! so don't start going off on me. But it makes me sad knowing alot of y'all…

right, its not just extra fat its brain nerve development and so much more even if it was just more lbs which its not wouldn't you want your baby to come into the world nice and plump yes pregnancy can be hard and hurt but once its over its over! might as well give your baby its time

I agree with you 100% girl. I'm sad knowing my babies won't be that chubby .... :'( @leshea

but their my babies and I'm gonna make the babbies when they are born (: & also what makes me sad knowing they can have complications after labor which I pray every day won't happen.. I hope my specialist is right that they won't spend any time in the nicu

I totally agree with you👏🏻makes me a lil irritated when i see those posts when people aren't even past 36 weeks like really😒or all that negativity...like yes we are all miserable but look at the bright side be thankful u can carry a child a lot of women cant and wish they would or a lot of women have lost a child...i had a miscarriage last yr I'm thankful enough to have made it this far...it sadness me sometimes all this complaining women....a lot are not even 2nd tri lol use to come on preggie alot now i just dont get on as much😒besides cant even say anything some times then you get attacked over sensitive people that cant take critizim or advice properly they jump and attack right away any who point is i agree with you 💯👏🏻

I understand and I agree. I sympathize with you. I'm 41 weeks and the only reason I am afraid of going much further is because I want to avoid a medical induction. However, I feel for you and other ladies who see the importance of allowing labor to start when it is meant to happen- when there are some women out there who are not appreciative or grateful of their ability to carry full term and try to speed it up.

@lalaloopsi, I'm so sorry about your miscarriage...

@mamalamadingdong I'm so glad you ladies agree with me its so sad knowing they try to hurry their baby up.... when others are crying and begging to have a baby.

yeah your in pain but its pregnancy what did you expect for it to be all rainbow and butterflies... no it comes with pain and @mamalamadingdong wow your 41weeks congratulations to you .

your baby will be here real soon. when he or she is ready(:

Wow 41 weeks 😐are you feeling any kind of way @mamalamadingdong

I agree with you 100%, when I first hit 37 weeks I was so anxious and thought it was go time. It only took a few days until I realized that the baby still has so much more developing to do. By the end of week 37 I was not ready to go into labor. Now I will admit since last night I have been anxious to try to jump start my labor and progress my dilation because I'm trying to avoid being induced. I'll be 40 weeks tomorrow and I don't want to risk the baby passing meconium in the womb so I've decided to be induced at 41 but if there wasn't any risks in waiting after 40 weeks I would definitely wait.

@ktwins188, thank you its hard but teaches you how to appreciate every lil thing of pregnancy even kankles😂

@xoxoc, in sure your baby will be here very soon(: your doing sooo great .

@lalaloopsi, rigghhtt.. you gotta love those kankles hahah x)

thanks and good luck to you and your babies 😊 everything will be just fine !

@ktwins188, I agree with you 100% with you. I'm looking forward to carrying my baby until he's ready. Love being pregnant. And would never try to induce myself before them cause I'm tired of being pregnant. That's just selfish. Unless my doctor says its for health risk as you. Good luck with the babies

I'm just feeling nervous, but I'm trying to stay calm and trust my body! I mean, of course there all the painful side effects of pregnancy, but those are expected for anyone. 😊 @lalaloopsi

@xoxoc, your welcome ! && thank you so much.

@nurseriri that's so amazing to hear I'm glad to hear that I love being pregnant as well. <3

@lalaloopsi @leshea @mamalamadingdong @nurseriri @xoxoc

&& I just want to ask you ladies if you can take the time go send me prayers I deliver on the 18 I need to go into the hospital that day at 2:30 a.m and I pray everyday for health babies and that they don't spend time in the nicu like my specialist told me. I pray they don't have any complications after labor. thank you so much ladies it would mean so much to me <3 goodnight all you beautiful mommy's and mommies to be

Sending prayers and happy thoughts your way! 🙏

(Can't wait to see your babies!)

@mamalamadingdong, <3333 thank you soo much :D

Love this! Pregnancy is painful it's a part of life and rushing babies out isn't smart. I thought I would be pregnant forever but I just let things happen on their own and I only went 2 days over

<3333 thank you. @lilyandkaidynsmommy

&& your little one is sooo beautiful :D

Thank you girl! Your twins are gonna be adorable!

thank you so much (: four more day til my due date ahhh <3 @lilyandkaidynsmommy

Oh my gosh it's coming up so quick! Ahh I'm so excited for you, I'll be checking for updates on that day

I hope my hospital has WiFi bcuz I use my phone that isn't connected . so I can update during the whole process @lilyandkaidynsmommy

Hopefully it does lol I didn't realize until like half way through labor that mine did

Sure will sending prayers your way and good luck😋@ktwins188 hope all goes well

I think I posted something similar back when I first got on this site. I saw someone at like 33 weeks asking for ways to induce labor cause she didn't want too big of a baby... It was infuriating to see that someone was willing to risk their baby being healthy and ready just to have a smaller baby to birth.

I went to 40 weeks 5 days, turned down induction several times, and got an almost 9 pounder 😳 haha wouldn't change a thing :)

omg 33weeks that's sooo messed upp.

&& wowww bigger the baby the better :D