I truly don't understand how some women allow themselves to be mistreated by their SO. if they are cheating or talking to someone else or aren't being supportive of your pregnancy, why stay & allow yourself to deal with such stress? I understand that some women rely on their men financially or have nowhere to go, but look into other options. there are other resources. I hate seeing or hearing about women being mistreated, especially while pregnant. you don't deserve it and your child(ren) shouldn't be exposed to that. RANT OVER.
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I agree! there are people with real mental health issues, and it does sadden me that they have to endure such a sad lifestyle because of it. I just wish more people wouldn't be afraid to speak up or ask questions. there is support out there, but some people are afraid of looking bad or find any excuse, when they should be proud that they can see the signs and get out of that negative place. @ginag918
a lot of ppl just want to pick an illness to justify them being plain old stupid, selfish, and materialistic BUT that's not to take away from the real women suffering at the hands of their mate's
To some it's more difficult than just trying to seek help from others and other resources.
I agree I hate all the excuses some women come up with I mean there are those with real mental issues which makes them stay in unhealthy situations but some are just scared to be alone and are just used to living a certain lifestyle and so for superficial reasons they rather stay and take the abuse and disrespect it's not always so complex in my personal experience 28th friends only one of them had real mental issues which caused them to take abuse and even she financially could support herself alone the others I know could also but they were afforded a lifestyle they don't want to give up which is sad
In some cases they seriously can't just leave because they're so bound by mental brainwashing.
seek Other options. I'm not saying it's easy, and that it'll be an overnight thing but make sure you are okay, find support within family or friends or the gov't if need be. your life and your child's life is important, and you shouldn't have to deal with that type of abuse or neglect @lilanne1927
So what's your 'suggestion' too those of us who want to leave so bad but can't bring ourselves to?
I have heard of it and I do feel for women who have to deal with that. but if they are able to see the signs, clearly they know something isn't right. their child should always come first
It's a lot more complicated than that. Have you ever heard of Stockholm syndrome?
I'm glad my man isn't like that . he just an asshole sometimes but not ever men are such butterflies lol. he's been there for me though thick and thin , never speaks to another female I'm his and he's mine. !!!
Im not with him because of money I'm with him because he's a great person treats me good and is a jerk lol but I stl love him veryyy much.