what would you do if you 3 year old says he doesn't like your bf who your madly in love with ? he…

iv never dealt w this issue but if ur bf is a good man and good to ur kids and he's gunna stick around I would try some bonding excersize s for them. if he was mean to ur son or shotty partner that's diff but just sounds like ur boy is jealous for ur time and attention

I believe kids have a sixth sense when it comes to people and are very easy to win over. If he hasn't been able to win your kid over I think it's a red flag and something you should pay attention to. I saw my sister go through this and she never paid mind to her young kids feelings, he ended up being no good. Not saying it's the same situation but giving you my input. Best of luck.

@lilymama, I know some kids do but I disagree about that with my son my bf is a very good man/person and took them in as his own my son t adored him until recently he has seen his biological dad ,I know he's never liked being told he can't act out badly or being disciplined I feel that the only excuses he gives me because he will be excited to see him one day then the next he won't talk to him he says he doesn't like his dads gf either although that one I understand I think its because he's used to me and his dad being together but that's been over at least almost three years now but thank you I'll still pay attention

@livd15, yes he's never mean the only reason my son thinks he is at times is because my son will be back talking me or not listening repeatedly and my bf will just say ay don't talk to your mother that way if she asks you to do something do it,and after my son listens he praises him for doing good and if he wets the bed he talks to him about it and tells him not to do it again and to get up and go next time and from day one of him being in there life I have always listened to the way he talk to tells them stuff and its never out of line

ya that's just good parenting and him stepping up as a father figure then ! of course ur son isnt gunna like it but he will get over it and appreciate it one day. he just wants u to himself 😍

Your baby is 3 years old.... do u know how often you are gonna head I don't like him or her or maybe even YOU from your toddler.... plenty.... now if his behavior has changed and he's acting out more or distant or wetting the bed out of nowhere then these are things you should look into. What is he like after being alone with your boyfriend or his father's girlfriend. Or what is he being told or taught while visiting his father or just when u aren't around. You just have to ask him questions and pay close attention too him. Make sure its not something serious. Because him just being disciplined and not liking it will surely pass.

@caseclosed2015, closed he is a heavy sleeper and we don't allow him to drink past 8 and he won't pee,as for when. he comes back from his dad he poops him self purposely I hear that could be his way if acting out and this is only when he comes back from seeing his dad we never have these issues if he doesn't go see him,and yes he's told me he doesn't like me when he's mad or didn't get his way I just brush it off ,when I leave him with my bf and come back he's cool runs and gives me a hug and goes about his biz and plays his older brother loves my bf even when he's told what to do although its because he's at the age where he know better he's 7,I'm thinking its because for one he's 3 and maybe doesn't understand he can like his dad and my bf at the same time @caseclosed2015

Yea just sounds like toddler behavior to me. He has to get accustomed to visiting his father and not thinking that he has to like one person more than the other. Hopefully his dad wouldn't try and make him choose sides or talk bad about him bring with u and your boyfriend.... I think its good that u are concerned tho.