The closer I get to my due date, the more scared I'm getting😞 .... I know I'm getting drugs for…

That's how I used to be. When the time came it really wasn't that bad, not even the epidural. I took it like a champ lol. Every pregnancy is different, don't go off of people's stories mama.

Trust me. You forget the pain once they put baby on your chest. It's tolerable . Go ahead and get epidural so U won't feel as much and don't be shy to ask for more doses. That way U won't feel the stitches if U get any. But it's not that bad. U will be just fine

@babyn2015, @adamsmaaa thank you ladies❤️

No prob.. Also, when Ur pushing.. ask the doc to pour oil down there. They usually do it. They did it for me. That way U won't tear that bad. I only had 3 stitches and I had a 38 hr labor, 2 hrs pushing! Lol

It won't be that bad. The worse part was when it was tome for me to push and I had to wait for the doctor to arrive and for them to get everything ready. Do kegels every chance you get. I didn't have any tearing. I pushed for 20 mins or less. Labor was only 15 hrs. It would have been less but they waited 6 hrs to confirm my water broke

@modifiedmermom, what are kegals? how do I do them? And how can I stop myself from tearing?

Kegels are to help your vagina prepare for labor. I cant really explain it lol google it thou. I did that the night before I went into labor. Unfortunately I was just doing it to prepare myself but since I was on bedrest and decided to walk and my water broke and everything the next morning