So we are at my mother in laws and she tells my husband to give her wipes so she can change the baby, and I said I can change my kids diaper I don't need her to to do it, so of course my husband just gives her the wipes and she changes arias diaper!
Ok so then she disappears with my baby whatever,, and I get home and change arid diaper and she has a diaper on that's not hers, and it's to big, and i ask my husband where did this diaper come from and he says idk she went and changed her that time when she walked out of the room,!
So she snuck off to change my babies diaper!! Wtf her diaper bag is in the living room and she was in the living room, but she snuck off to change her diaper, wtf! I'm probably going to end up killing this lady!! Before aria turns 18
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@at eph11, yeah she always says to my husband is she done yet is she done yet no bitch she isn't she will be done when she is done and when you see me burping her that's when she is done like wtf!
@gaillynn, I have the same issue. I honestly don't know what to expect but I have an idea and I don't like it. With how overbearing my in-laws are and how manipulative, I don't know how I'm gonna handle it. I know my MIL wants to watch the baby for the day at times but I don't feel comfortable with that because they make their 16 year old daughter do everything because they have too ma by medical issues... so she'll be the one taking care of him not them and I'm not about to leave my newborns care in the hands of a dramatic 16 year old girl. What if there is an emergency? She won't be able to act fast enough and neither will they.
my mil does the same shit! she always makes comments about how I need to get her off the boob so she can take her. f that. I don't want her to ever take my daughter without me there. but she'll never do that idc I don't like her
her * but I understand where your coming from .
and simce my boyfriend is still in school she dint want to let him take us to the doctors appointments . she always wants to be there . I tell him to tell her something but he does not . I want him there cause he's the father not him .
I don't give a damn about my mother in laws feelings she get me them hurt all the time and walks around like Simone stabbed her in the heart just so people feel bad for her is a crap thing that she pulls for attention, but I can't say anything to her the way I need and want because she doesn't speak English!! And my dam husband won't say anything @mommytoliliana
Your so lucky I wish we could move away lol! I would be so happy!!!! I know I have so much shut as well. This is just a small thing compared to some of the shut she pulls! Ugh @colladolopez
in going through the same thing ! my mother in law takes over my baby like I don't know how to do anything. she don't want me to dress her how I want it has to be her way. she gets on to me for dressing my baby in cute outfits cause she to "naked" my daughter has to be cover head to toe when she's around my mother in law . it bothers me. she want me to raise my baby exactly how she raised hers. she wants everything her way it's annoying.yes I might not know everything but she can teach me not take over wich is what she does .... but I don't want to say anything cause her feelings get hurt fast.
I have such a long list of people who are not welcomed to the hospital when I deliver and certain rules I'll have in place they can get pissy idc
oh yes, there's so many other stories I could tell lol but now I live 3 hrs away so I barely see her. but she's not welcomed to the hospital when I deliver in dec
thanks i keep u updated see how it goes :) @gaillynn
Yeah good luck to you I hope it's not the same @flakaramos
thanks ... i understand i can only imagen and it must be hard hopefully things get better and she can stop wish u the best with here @gaillynn
Yeah your gonna need help maybe, but not for them to act as if it's their kid, like damn, I'm good honestly I don't need anyone's help I've adapted pretty good, and she is just plain out trying to sneak around with my baby
What the actual fuck!!!!!!!!! Oh my gosh!!! I don't know what these bitches think I swear @colladolopez
listen to this. when I had my first daughter she was in the nicu and would only come in for a feeding. they put the hospital hat on her but when I got her she didn't have one on. I thought they didn't give us hats at first only to find out later on that bitch took it! we were at a birthday party and someone asked me if we got a hat, I said no and that I didn't know why. and my mom in law says yes she did I have it, and she pulls it out from the bottom of her dirty ass purse. I was livid....
i agree with you i mean i know i need the help since am a ftm but than again i dnt need her makeing me feel like she gna take over my baby and i feel like my husband wont say a thing either @gaillynn
That's the. Thing they are grandparent not our child's parents we are the parents and they need to step down and let us be parents!
that wat am afaird of i know they are happy they gna be grand pernets but am scar she going to try and act like it her baby n take control. she already thinking moving dwn here in miami and then wants to take a week off work so she can be here already told me that wen he 1 or 2 she gna take him on weekends lol @mistydawnjg
Well she is Hispanic an does not speak English! And my husband and I talk about it all the time, but he says I can't tell her it's not that easy, but yet he gets upset with me because I hurt his moms feelings cause she can tell that I'm talking about her, like than you need to say something to her damn, im just caught because I don't want to make my husband uncomfortable but at the and time like damn I'm your wife, and you need to be on my side, and if I truly have to try my hardest to tell her how I'm feeling my husband is going to regret it because if I say something than its not gonna be nice @mercy475
Hell no screw that!!! I hope you don't have to deal with it, it's honestly horrible!!! @mistydawnjg
that would severely piss me off, I'd confront her and I wouldn't be too nice about it. tell her that its your child, you can change them and take care of them and you don't appreciate her doing that especially without your permission except I'd add a lot more swearing in there. I have a cousin who is like that, your baby could be screaming at the top of their lungs and the minute you go to pick them up she'll turn away from you and tell you nothing is wrong with them or they're fine.. make sure you talk to your husband about it too
I hate it! I honestly don't know how to keep my cool any longer,
And my husband he agrees with me but won't say anything to his precious mother, I'm gonna kill him too! @colladolopez
I'm scared I'm going to have this problem with my MIL. She's already told me "when I'm off I'm taking the baby so you need to figure out what your going to be doing" like bitch.. uh no
I swear I use to go thru the same bull with my ma in law smh
@missyowl92, there is no need to leave your baby with them unless you need to right? I wouldn't unless you had to! Why do they think we should just leave them for the day