I been having some serious doubts of my relationship my whole pregnancy. Maybe I will act on those thoughts and leave but the other side just wants to stay because of my daughter. Its just so hard. Idk what to do.
But if you are unhappy and you don't think it's hormones or something temporary, I recommend leaving. I would rather have no dad or a pretty absent one then live in a home of fighting and very little stability. Keep your head up. things do get better. :-)
Not doubting your doubts but remember we have pregnancy hormones and I felt the same way you do for more than half my pregnancy and I recently woke up and was like "what the fuck was I thinking?" I don't know just a thought!
yeah its just hard when i know if him and i dont work out, they are threatening to take her away from me. the main problem with his and i relationship is his family to be honest. Their liberal stupid people that just care about themselves and put other people down with their own "success".
Your right @braylinsmommy I suggested us going on a break at least until she gets here to see if she brings us closer and repair our relationship. But the whole "break " situation never really works out.
Right. Its like you can't win for losing. I really want her to know the love we have for each other when we're not at each others throats. And I REFUSE to get into arguments in front of her when she gets here.@xaviermom1221,
dont stay in an unhealthy relationship because of your daughter you guys dont have to be togather for you both to be in her life .
Im on the same boat. i dont want to put my daughter through with not knowing her father that well. im trying so hard, to stay happy and try to work things out. It's hard, but im hoping for a good turn out!
thanks that was very helpful! @jmcmillion