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Erica
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Am I wrong for saying no every time my baby's dad (my ex) only wants to see me to get it in? And only in the middle of…

Am I wrong for saying no every time my baby's dad (my ex) only wants to see me to get it in? And only in the middle of the night. He says he's busy any other time. Ok well I'm busy now so good night. And when I do say no he gets mad. I want to spend time but not in the middle of the night. He doesn't get it 😔

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nati86

NatalieМама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)

and he won't get it as long as you still giving in to his late night booty calls. like Steve Harvey said guys don't upgrade the 12am booty call girl if that's what you allow then that's all you will be.tell him he needs to do better.

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ktwins188

KassandraВ ожидании первенца

mmmhm. don't fall for his lies girls. he just wants to go by when he wants some..

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_prettyinpink21

EricaВ ожидании первенца

@ktwins188, yes he does but it doesn't start until 4pm. So my thought is ok so u don't have time before then? I'm on maternity leave now so I'm off during the day now. But everyday he says he's busy.

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ktwins188

KassandraВ ожидании первенца

does he work like full time shifts?

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ktwins188

KassandraВ ожидании первенца

nah girl tell him to screw off. straight up what he's doing isn't right he is using you I'm sorry to say....

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_prettyinpink21

EricaВ ожидании первенца

@ktwins188, that's how I feel. I know how it feels to be played and this is it. He keeps saying I shouldn't feel like he is using me but when I say ok so let's do something tomorrow in the day time he says I need to rest 😒. So my answer will keep being no.

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ktwins188

KassandraВ ожидании первенца

girl in sorry but it sounds like he's just playing you.... that's redd flags just at the middle of the night he wants to "spend time" don't sound right at all. So NO you are not wrong for telling him no.

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