I just need to rant: I'm super pissed at my SO and his mom. She was complaining that she hasn't held our daughter since she's been over at our house for 2 hours and she's the grandparent that she sees so I told her "Please be grateful that you get to see her." And she got a little nasty with me and my SO came in and said there's no reason to fight and get ugly. I wasn't being ugly or mean. I hate my MIL because she's a bitch, and our daughter is getting sick so we told her no kissing her and she said she don't see why she can't kiss her and she got nasty about that also plus my daughter is breastfed and obviously I don't want her seeing me breastfed and she's always complaining about me feeding her and she usually falls asleep after I feed her. And after I got done feeding her she was sleeping and my SO told his mom to come in our room and just wake her up and take her from me. Are you freaking serious?! Every time she hold my daughter I get this white hot rage inside me, she has done nothing but make living a hellhole when she's around. Yeah when we didn't have a car she gave us rides and food and stuff and I do appreciate that but she always holds it over our heads and if we tell her we don't want to see her she will say "I'll just kill myself." And she wants to come over EVERYDAY!!! No!! My SO works 10 hours 6 days a week so he even barely gets to see us so I want family time and God forbid it, also I wanted me, my SO and our daughter to have thanksgiving dinner alone. Like a family and don't get me wrong my dad and his mom are family but is three we are a family also, we come first. So the day before Thanksgiving we are having dinner with my MIL and the day after thanksgiving we are having dinner with my dad. I'm really pissed, I hate her because she has done so many nasty things to us. am I wrong to be upset? Then my SO got called into work from 8-c and tonight my SO is cooking her a thank you dinner for helping us with something and she kept going on about how she won't be able to spend all night with us and when will we see her next. I'm about to fucking Stab her!!