Do any of you mommies have a schedule with your S.O?? With the kids/ baby ?? Like do you take the night shift? Do you majority do everything ? Does your SO take the night shift? I'm trying to figure out how my Hubby can help me more when it comes to our newborn...I exclusively breastfeed so I do 95% of everything when it comes to the baby...he'll get me diapers or burp her and he's basically fully taken over our toddler and keeps him busy but idk i just feel like he can help me more with our newborn 😑 maybe it's just my hormones ?? IDK
I do and did most the work my husband worked all day but he would and still does take her when he gets home so I can have a few minutes to myself, to shower or just be by myself lol. when she was new he did get up at night to help...changed her while I got ready to feed...now she doesn't get up very often so I just get up with her if she needs anything. on the weekends he will get up with her in the early morning and let me sleep it a little.
Breast feeding we do most of the work my BF worked during the week he would get home ant take care of him for like 2 hours so I can shower and relax in the weekends the baby was mostly with him I would just feed and my BF burped and changed him he tries to help as much as possible