Question is it wrong to not want to be with your child's father even though he's a great dad but your just not happy…

I'm tired of talking it's getting redundant

@ladybugsmommi,

@la

I know how you feel it's okay to feel this way did you talk to him about the situation ? @lasybugsmommi

I kno the feeling of having feelings for one man and hard to let go of another but if he into tv or his game he will let her cry. I have to beg him to watch her he don't volunteer or nun. I mean I have been with her for 12 weeks all day everyday with an exception of a few hours here and there but he think I just sit home and do nothing that aggravates me because I bring in a paycheck and I am caring for a baby which is a full time job. I have been so distant lately I just don't feel like myself. @amiyahsmommy

Girl say what's on your mind never be afraid you can talk to me I'm going through that he will fight me when I ask him to watch his daughter he yells but when he's actually awake he will watch her I just feel so unhappy myself and he tries only when he feels like im going to leave him I've fallen for another man but it's so hard to let go @ladybugsmommi @lyndonmichellegodby

no its not wrong I am dealing with this now. he is a great dad sometimes. depends on what u define as a great dad. he doesn't help out unless I ask he will just let her cry. I am feeling like I am being stretched too thin. sorry about my long rant I just have been keeping so much in and I don't know what to do.

But my ex showed more anger than hurt. But there was a lot of mental emotional abuse with our relationship

I'm sure it did. I knew it was gonna be hell to leave him because I was use to him and use to having him around but in time me, my new husband and my ex all get along and it's great. But it was hard just starting over and everything but you just got to stay strong. It's great that he is a good daddy. But your child deserves to see you happy and hopefully you guys will still have a friendship for the child

@lyndonmichellegodby, was your exes feelings hurt like I'm scared to end my relationship because of his feelings and what might happen when I date someone else

No it's not wrong. I stayed married to my ex for 7 years and was miserable for about 3 of them years and stayed for my kids and now I'm remarried and for once in life I'm beyond completely happy