I really, really hate seeing my husband get down on himself....he has these mental breakdowns all…

I really, really hate seeing my husband get down on himself....he has these mental breakdowns all too often when he looks in the mirror because of his weight and he feels like it makes him so ugly that he's gained 30 or so lbs. Personally, I think he looks awesome and I love the way he looks and his weight! To me, its a turn on. But he doesn't seem to hear me when I say anything about how much I adore and love his body. He says he's gonna starve himself...ugh I hate the thought of that 😳 Why can't he just be happy that I'm happy with his appearance😧 I do understand wanting to feel good for YOURSELF, though. So, Idk. So stressful.