so it's a long story but need to vent with people who might understand....
I am 19 years old expecting my first baby and all my friends and family stopped talking to me. (except for brothers and sisters whose support I have 100%) my mom passed away when I was 17 years old I took her to the hospital and took care of her I was there when she passed away and my dad moved on like nothing he didn't even plan a funeral of course that made me feel hatred towards him while me and my siblings planned a funeral for our mom , I moved out with my boyfriend the Friday after we graduated got our own apartment I would try to call my dad so I could see my little sisters but he refused. He disowned me and turned my family against me even thou I never blamed him for my mom's death (she had been complaining about pains but he never took her to the hospital or helped her) so when I told everyone I was pregnant of course word got to him and he is telling everyone that the disgrace he had as a daughter ducked up her life. of course I also have my boyfriend's family but his mom can't stand me since we told them we were moving out together because he is her baby, when we told them I was pregnant his dad was happy and 100% supporting but his mom won't even look at me or talk to me and IDK what to do I try not to stress or cry a lot but it's constantly on my mind that my baby is coming into this kind of a family 😭💔
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don't worry about anyone else. you have your boyfriend and your sisters and brothers. They care about you and support you so just focus on them. Don't stress out over it.
omg exactly what my fiance's mom said because he makes $500 every Thursday. and she thinks I'm using him for his money he doesn't believe her though thank god.
@mamaofangelbaby0610 she blamed me for the pregnancy saying I'm only after her sons money 😒 and all I said was "you know very well it takes two to make a baby "
I can say from experience, they will change how they are acting. Try to ignore them now, because you can miscarry from crying to much (stress) but as you get farther along they will slowly come to you, and don't rush them. Just because you got pregnant doesn't mean they have to bow down at your feet, it hits some people really hard and like I said from experience with my pregnancy now they will slowly come back into your life. Your way to early to be stressing out! Try to have the "f it" attitude towards everything and everyone. If they want to be mean f it. they wanna ignore you f it
I know how you feel like almost exactly my family hates me and my fiance's mom hates me and can't stand me tells my fiance that he's gonna regret being with me and getting me pregnant.
You gotta let it go and worry about you and torus those who are not supportive just keep your distance. It's hard not to care when you have a big heart but don't let it consume you. I'm a firm believer that praying makes things better. I hope it gets better for you ❤️