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Celeste
Celeste
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I think I'm finally done trying and done caring for my boyfriend and I don't know how to take it ? 🤔 Do I stay and make…

I think I'm finally done trying and done caring for my boyfriend and I don't know how to take it ? 🤔 Do I stay and make it work for my family ? And stay unhappy? Or do I leave and make the best of it ? 🤔🤐 I still love him ( I think) I do care but I'm not sure if I care about us . Idk he and this relationship doesn't seem to be what I want . I want to be treated like a queen , want to be with someone who puts my feelings and needs first like I do his . I want someone who wants better for themselves and their family ... I just feel like I have a child that's gonna be here soon and don't have time for the bs . I have one baby not two . He needs to grow up .

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babyanakin

khrysta

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I'm the same girl... it hurts

missing137user

missing137user

Мама сына (8 лет), беременна (36 нед.)

You should never stay just for the sake to keep your family together! You deserve to be happy girl!

danad269

dana

I was always told 1 unhappy home or 2 happy homes! Not sure how true it is, but something to think about!

jahnessagarcia

Jahnessa

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im having the same thoughts girl.. im gonna try and work things out but if things don't change then all i can say is at least i tried and it didnt work. rather then i didnt try.

i hope things work out for you. so you can be happy and enjoy pregnancy

brittany_leigh

brittany

Мама двоих (5 лет, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

i stayed with my first two because i wanted them to have what i didnt growing up a two parent household. i stayed longer then i should. they had bkth parents but at what cost? momma was miserable and seen daddy and momma fight all the time. leaving was the best thing i did for my kids. now they have a happy momma and live without stress and hearing yelling.

ilovebabyjosiah

Celeste

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@babyanakin, it does , it's confusing as hell

ilovebabyjosiah

Celeste

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@tomoschetti06, your right , he's really selfish .

ilovebabyjosiah

Celeste

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@tmoschetti06 ^

ilovebabyjosiah

Celeste

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@danad269 I don't get it ☹️

ilovebabyjosiah

Celeste

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@jahnessagarcia he hasn't changed my whole pregnancy idk what makes me think he'd change now ? Like he hasn't changed our whole 2 years

ilovebabyjosiah

Celeste

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@brittany_leigh I think my stay is already over due

babyanakin

khrysta

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@ilovebabyjosiah, mine is selfish and has an anger problem because his dad.... he trys but he is immature

danad269

dana

@ilovebabyjosiah, if you stay baby has 1 unhappy home w both parents. Or the baby has 2 happy homes

ilovebabyjosiah

Celeste

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@babyanakin I just do so much for him and don't get nothing in return

jahnessagarcia

Jahnessa

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@ilovebabyjosiah, true.. 2 years is a long time to try and work things out. id just call it quits. at least you were the one trying to make things works.

jahnessagarcia

Jahnessa

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if you ever need to vent or just someone to listen im here for you!☺

ilovebabyjosiah

Celeste

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@jahnessagarcia, thanks girl 😌

babyanakin

khrysta

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@ilovebabyjosiah, girl I know how u feel.. I'm the same... it sucks but I'm hoping when our son comes it will change him.

ilovebabyjosiah

Celeste

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@babyanakin, I think that too but then I think why would he change when the baby is here ? What's the baby gonna do ?

babyanakin

khrysta

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@ilovebabyjosiah, idk but we where told both of could never have kids. this is out miracle baby so... I'm hoping

swtlilangl

Amanda Scott

Мама двоих (7 лет, 8 лет), ждёт третьего

Is he a teenager too? Because if he's 19 it's understandable...guys don't really grow up until at least 25 and sometimes longer.

quintonswifey1

brianna

Мама троих детей

if you have to put "I think" after the sentence if you love him then it's not love

ilovebabyjosiah

Celeste

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@swtlilangl yep !

ilovebabyjosiah

Celeste

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@quintonswifey1, yeah I figured ....

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