Well he has either two choices spend time with his family or lose his family. I'm pretty sure those friends won't last when it comes to buying food,formula,diaper and wipes when the baby comes. You should put your foot down and tell him how you feel and what need to be done. Girl, I understand and get your point of view as a parent as well.

@youcanttamebre, I go through the same but he knows when I say no it's NO you gotta take his phone car keys or something so he knows you ain't playing girl:;)

it's time to have a serious talk with him and let him know how you feel maybe after he will change if not at least you tried and you need to do what's best for you and your child