Yeah you should spend first day just you the daddy (if he's there) and the baby especially if ur breastfeeding it's real important to spend a lot of skin to skin time

Yeah that's what I was going for too I really want to encourage him to wait for our friends to come later on and meet the baby because I felt like I didn't get the bonding experience with my second that I was supposed to because our room was crowded with family and friends and even some people who invited themselves and I was so overwhelmed I already have really bad anxiety I didn't even know what to say to him and I felt really bad 😕

I have...since this time I'm not having a c section (trying for a vba2c) I want to be as focused and calm as possible...and I don't have added stress so just my SO and my sister will be there