My. Birthday is November 13, I'm due November 20. I still don't know if I should invite people to my…

If you go into labor it's ok:) people will understand and will make the day even more special

Well in my experience I was due yesterday and today is my birthday I'm still pregnant haha :) just invite people and let them know that it's subject to change at any notice cause of baby or celebrate the week before

@jazmin805, I'm more afraid to go into labor right before the party :) it would be nice to go into labor the next day after.

@2novbabies, the week before is not going to work, because it's now :) and I'm cramping two weeks in a row now, so I'm not sure when it happens ..

Wait I thought I had two weeks until the 23rd that's my daughters 2nd birthday lol. I was so sure I was going to have her last week, like I had contractions and everything and here I am still over due haha

lol my due date is 12/02 and my birthday is 12/07 so I have the same delima

@2novbabies, I meant a week before my birthday is now. My birthday is in Friday :) well, we never know when we're going to go into labor, I actually hate it, I like to know everything in advance so I could make plans.

@babybump3, for some reason it upsets me 😄

You mean the 13th? Your post says the 23rd maybe that's why I'm confused 😂

Lol if everything was actually 100% planned tnat would be great

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That's why I love I get to plan my c section for this one get to know when im.having it :) it sucks when it's ur first or you have only have vaginal births u just have to wait

@2novbabies, ops, yes, right. It was a typo. Nov 13 :(

@2novbabies, it's not always great to be able to plan everything, but birth is kind of stressful so that's why I would love to get some hints about when it'll start ..lol

I think you should go ahead and plan something and just see what happens keep people in the loop like yea plans are still a go or no baby time instead lol

@stacy_, yeah I knew when my first was coming I was induced but tbh it sucked so I'm just letting everything come on its own time this time lol

@lacywriter91, c-section is kind of scary too, so I'm not sure if I would prefer it over vaginal birth. I just worry because it's a first time and the only person who can drive me to hospital is my husband(I live far away from my parents) and I really hope that there'll be no surprises, traffic jams or anything else :)

Yeah I was really against c section with my son but after pushing for three hours I had to have one and unfortunately because of my narrow pelvis I only have 10% chance of ever having a vaginal cause my son was only 5 lbs 12 ozs so should have been able to so c sections for now on out no vbac so gotta look on the bright side I guess