So my moms whole side of the family decided not to go to my baby shower this upcoming Friday I am trying not to overthink it but I know they're doing it on purpose to be complete assholes and it bothers me because I am not like that
I wish 😩 I think if my guest list consisted of preggie mommies you would all go I am like regretting doing a shower because by the looks of it it's not going to be worth the investment @mom13
its childish behavior is what it is and unneeded stress on you. familys make me wonder some times like if your excited and happy and both u and baby are healthy thats what should matter not how their feeling's are hurt because they feel u dont make enough time for them like for real grow up
@franchesca i know how you feel , but just remember your baby is going to have more than enough from mommy and daddy and both sides of the family will realize its what they missing out on .
your welcome and maybe they just realize they've lost their baby girl my family didn't like my hubby at first for no specific reason other then I was the baby my family comes around so hopefully your does too and if not then its their loss
I know it just gets me so upset because the fathers side of the family ain't even find of me having a baby they don't acknowledge it they don't even speak to me so there goes one less side of my sons family that he won't be around then mine is the same way too and it's like I know he has more than enough with me but when your own grandparents don't worry about you and none of your aunts either and he sees how other kids have that family connection it's going to get questioned and only one grandparent does which is my mom @aubreysmommy
They are doing it on purpose because they say I swear I am better because im barely behind their asses chasing them I work and go to school and been doing so since 14 and now pregnant I am even more busy they doing to stress me out yet no matter how distant I am for every event every major one at least I actually go and buy gifts @mom13