I hate hormones. My boyfriend likes to spend a lot of his free time over at his buddies house paying w.o.w . Anyways we are always together and sometimes I like to just chill at the house(before me and him got together I only went out of my home to see friends maybe 2-3 times every 2 months. And now we are ALWAYS at his buddies now and whenever I say I want to stay home and he can go he gets all upset saying how he wants me to go with him and spend time with him yet 99.9% of the time both of them are zoned out into their computer playing together and I'm just sitting there bored out of my mind. I hate staying out late now that I'm pregnant and EXTREMELY exhausted. I hate to be out of the house past 8pm but every time I ask my boyfriend how long we will be staying he says "only an hour" and we end up staying 3-4 hours and I just want to go home but he will throw a fit if I ask him to go home before 10-10:30pm. Idk if I'm just being over emotional about this but I work 13+ hours 6 days a week so when I do get a chance to be home it's nice. Idk what to do 😭
@malikannxo, I'll definitely try that cause it's getting to the point to where I'm so exhausted I just can't do it. I'd be doing the same thing at home but I'd be more comfortable.
Try introducing him into another hobby, one you'll both enjoy more. It is nice that he wants you there with him but to be doing that everynight when you don't enjoy it is ridiculous. Just talk to him about maybe getting into something different some nights & throw some ideas at him. If he refuses then yeah he's beyond selfish
then don't go you need to out your foot down nothing is changing the fact that he's selfish
@malikannxo, @mami1212 see I don't mind if like me and him go over there like 1-2 times a week but it's almost every night and while I'm at work and he is off work he is spending all of his free time over there plus he begs me to go there after I've had a long day at work
Oh no doubt I mean he obviously wants to be around you or he wouldn't be wanting you there so that's the good part lol my boyfriend and I struggled with spending time together...I couldn't go out partying with our friends and we didn't have the money to blow on date nights like we use to so we went out and got cards and a bunch of board games and that's our little date night now and it's awesome and relaxing for both of us after a long day. Hope you figure it out girl!