Just found out I'm pregnant. Obviously feeling scared, but also mad because I don't see myself being…
Just found out I'm pregnant. Obviously feeling scared, but also mad because I don't see myself being with the dad. We aren't together, but he is a good guy with a decent job & is willing to help, but I can't help but feel some type of resentment towards him. I know I will love my baby no matter what. I don't want to do this alone, but I don't want to be in an unhappy relationship with somebody I don't want to be with.... I know I'm not the only one. Advice??

Teagan Mullins·
I don't feel like you need to be together with someone just because you have a child with them. I think it's pretty normal to have a little resentment, you will move past it. You are the one that has to carry the baby and have the risks and complications that come with pregnancy. Not only is that extremely hard to wrap your head around, but your whole life is about to change and the dad's life doesn't necessarily change as much as your's; nor does his body go through what your's is about to. I'd mark it down as hormones. People talk about the beauty of pregnancy but no one really discusses how terrifying it can be or how troubled it can make you feel. I personally felt horrid in my early part of pregnancy because I felt detached from my baby. It's something you will get past don't worry :).
Tiffanie·
Мама троих детей
I been in your situation when I got pregnant with my son 6 years. Don't get in a relationship when you don't want to be with that person. I did because I didn't want to be alone during my pregnancy. I was going through all kinds of feelings even abortion thoughts because I didn't want to have his baby he took off the protection during sex and he admitted to getting me pregnant in purpose. He moved in after the baby was born but I was miserable. I finally broke it off when my son turn one. I was so unhappy
Cristina·
Мама подростков
Same here sometime wonder when is enough. I don't want to keep suffer and hurting my kids.The best thing to do is to really think about and make a decision. If you stay or go but once you go dont look back. Yes it will be hard but their always going to be better things coming. Do what makes you happy because if you do it for him youll never be happy.